What impressed me most when I was a child was that my parents always took care of themselves every day, and they were not allowed to leave the table no matter whether they were full or not. Don't run around eating with your hands. Many children lack table manners now. At that time, parents never seemed to follow with bowls. "Don't run, dear, come and eat!" "In this way, now many grandparents always follow their baby grandchildren and bow their heads to feed them. I still remember having breakfast early in the morning, when I was young and didn't know anything. Adults eat porridge and watch dried radish. Everyone has had this feeling. What they can't get is the best. So I looked greedy and wanted to eat. My mother gave me a small piece, and I was not satisfied with eating the whole piece. That's a pickled radish bigger than my fist. How salty it is Dad threatened me at the dinner table. I'm sure I can't eat, so don't take so much. I must have been stubborn when I was a child, but I won't! Determined to eat it as a whole, the fruit is not salty and I want to throw it away. Strict father came at this time and insisted that I eat. After all, I can take as much as I want, and I want to take the whole thing. Don't eat leftovers! He was only three or four years old at that time. The boss chewed a radish and drank three whole glasses of water. After eating it, his parents actually praised it. From then on, no matter what you eat, you will always remember the word "fitness". I don't want to suffer for myself anymore. Parents are the best teachers for children and have a good family education atmosphere. Proper and reasonable education of parents has a subtle influence on children's growth. Children imitate their parents from the most ignorant time, because they may be young and their parents are their closest people. The image of parents has virtually become the greatest person in their eyes. When I was a child, I thought my parents could do anything. Nothing can't be solved as long as there are parents. At that time, I learned all the movements of my parents. Later, my mother told me funny stories about my childhood. My mother said that I had just learned to walk. When I saw my mother walk straight down the stairs like that, I admired it, so I also learned their walking posture. As a result, I walked unsteadily and fell down the stairs. Fortunately, it was nothing serious. This is an inappropriate imitation, but it can also explain the influence of parents on their children. My parents are tolerant and kind people. They think.
This is the way to be a man. Treat people sincerely. My parents taught me to be honest when I was young. If I do something that doesn't conform to the principles of life, they will severely punish me and educate me for a long time. But for that small mistake, they always forgive me, tell me some truth, let me know my mistake, and then I will never make similar mistakes again. Of course, I made a mistake. When I was a child, my parents would praise me and encourage me to continue my efforts. This is my happiest thing, which makes my dear parents proud of me. In this way, I have the motivation to continue to work hard. Living in a warm family environment since childhood has always made me full of infinite yearning for life. Although the future is far away, as long as we work hard, maybe the surprise is always not far away.
Of course, I have seen some examples of family education failure. There is a child next door to my grandmother's house who did some stealing when he was a child. At that time, he didn't make serious mistakes. However, after his family knew about this, they didn't educate their children well, but they still spoiled them and didn't want to talk about him. After a long time, the child feels that every time he steals something, he will be fine. Because his parents protect him and he is not of legal age, he will not be caught by the police. Later, when I reached the legal age, I still didn't change. After a theft, he was taken away by the police inspector. Later, I heard grandma say that the child cried at the police station, said that she regretted stealing, and said that she should work hard and stop stealing like this, but it didn't help. He was sentenced to prison. I don't remember how long it has been. My grandmother told me that his family was crying very sadly, but it was useless. Overindulgence will only lead to tragedy. This is a pity. In view of this matter, I think all of us should reflect and educate, not only to educate children from an early age, but also to publicize the correct educational methods to parents. Overindulgence will not work after all. Soong Ching Ling once said: In the final analysis, children's talents are deeply influenced by their families, parents and especially their mothers. When children grow up, society becomes an environment to exercise them. Schools also play an important role in the development of young people. However, it is the family that has left an indelible mark on a person. Family education abroad has always been what I advocate and what I want to learn. In the future, if I organize my own family and have children, I will be strict and lenient. Parents can't protect their children for life, but they should always leave room for their children to play freely and give them opportunities to go out for exercise. Foreign parents give their children enough freedom. In the process of their growth, they will not put too much energy into their children's reading, but adopt a relaxed education method.
The parent-child relationship model abroad is more like friends than parents and children. Nowadays, after many children enter adolescence, a big problem faced by parents is