1. Use special? Love? Educate naughty students. ?
Naughty students often make trouble or have poor behavior habits. Like a classmate in our class. Playful and naughty, causing trouble, everyone saw him shake his head and everyone saw him have a headache. He usually likes to provoke other students, such as throwing other people's things and grabbing other people's erasers.
So he left a bad impression on his classmates, who all thought he was annoying and dared not bother him more. He is a boy with mild ADHD. Wayward and impulsive, lacking in thinking. His desk drawer is always full of messy things, such as textbooks, exercise books, pencil tips, waste paper, desertion and little tricks in class, and it also affects others. His homework will never be finished, so his academic achievements speak for themselves.
Playing nonstop in class, not paying attention to class, uneasy, and poor learning initiative. After class, like a stiff wild horse, it runs like a fly, running wildly. He had to quarrel with others after class. It is really necessary to have any bad habits. He has everything. It is good to stay and criticize many times, and education is also good, but it has not improved much. After communicating with parents, parents criticized and educated many times at home, but it still had little effect. It seems that this student doesn't buy it. I'm trying to find his bright spot. It is as difficult as looking for gold in the sand. I don't remember if I raised my hand once in class or if I wrote a little more carefully. I seized this rare opportunity in time and praised him greatly. He was still a little touched at that time. After a class, he can restrain himself and make progress. In the so-called poor students? Deep in your heart, you give him a warm seed of trust, which will surely take root, sprout, blossom and bear fruit.
Second, learn to listen.
Children with psychological problems need special care, and listening is the basis and premise of effective education.
Psychological research shows that deep down, people have a desire to be respected by others. As a teacher, to educate students effectively, we must respect students, listen to their voices, understand their sufferings and know what they are thinking; Do what? What are you happy about? What is there to worry about? What are their successes in learning? What's the confusion? Is it the method? Or a psychological problem? Is it a habit problem or a basic problem? Only by having a clear understanding of these problems can we prescribe the right medicine and be targeted.
When understanding students, we should put down the teacher's airs, be approachable and affable, increase affinity, make them learn to listen. Therefore, listening is the premise of implementing effective education. ?
For example, I once taught a student, and I often saw that she was unhappy and seemed preoccupied. I have looked for her many times, but she just won't talk.
Once, I looked for her, and she said, teacher, there are some things I don't want to say. I appreciate your concern for me. But I don't want to talk about my mood. ? After a long time, she came to me and said, teacher, I want to talk to you. Can you keep a secret for me? I looked her in the eye and said, don't you believe me? You don't need it. ? Then she talked about her father leaving home several years ago, and her mother lived a hard life with her. This year, her mother found her a stepfather. Unfortunately, the two of them often quarrel about her schooling. Because of the financial difficulties at home, the stepfather wanted his children to go to school, and the mother quarreled about it. She is worried about her mother, afraid that her mother will lose her husband; I am worried about myself, afraid that I will lose the opportunity to learn. She's so scared and contradictory. I don't know what to do. I really want to tell the teacher, but I'm afraid the students will know, so I'm sorry. I really want to calm down and study hard, but when I get home, I see my mother with a sad face and I won't listen to anything. My heart is in a mess. ?
? When I listen, I don't interrupt, I don't cross, I always look into her eyes and pay attention to her affairs. She is psychologically stable and feels relaxed when she says it.
After listening, I also fell into deep thought. I think: if this problem can't be solved properly, it will not only affect her learning style, but also affect her family. I thought for a moment and then said to her, did you call him dad? She said, no? I asked again, why did she say: I can't scream? . I think this may be the problem. Just tell her: the problem is actually you. Emotionally, you can't accept that your father is the total source of your family problems. When you go back, tell your mother that my father is very kind to me. You take the initiative to say hello to your father. If you have any questions, you can write to your parents and express your views on your family. Just say that when you are middle-aged, your peace and happiness is my greatest wish. Family harmony is my greatest wish. Take the initiative to care about your father, care about his work, care about his emotions, let him go home, feel the warmth of the family and enjoy the warmth of the family. If you can do this, I think your family problems can be solved. The problem of your going to school is not that difficult. ? Later on the phone, I told her parents, especially her father. After feeling her daughter's concern for him, she was very moved and said a word to me on the phone. My daughter has gone to school. Although we have great difficulties, we must provide it. Now, children don't have to remember anything, and their academic performance is constantly improving. And became a lively, optimistic and enterprising good student. Later, in the senior high school entrance examination, she was admitted to Gaopu.
Third, let students experience the teacher's love?
It's not easy to love every student, and it's even more difficult for students to feel the love of teachers, because in classes with the majority of only children, they often take it for granted and do whatever I want. Only students with good family education can realize this. Therefore, the most important thing for a class teacher is to let students feel the teacher's love. Why? Because love is the emotional basis of education for students, students and class teachers have feelings before they can kiss their teachers and trust their teaching? . Students often stay away from the class teacher. Sometimes you criticize him, and he even bites back. In view of this situation, we should try to make students realize that the teacher's criticism of him is also a kind of love. ? The hard work of junior high school teachers can be imagined. We should study the new textbooks carefully and prepare a lot of materials to start the speech.
On the first day of school, I introduced myself to the students and shook hands with them. I personally encouraged and blessed him. I sent them a cordial smile and left them an amiable impression. I hinted at them in silent language, reminding them to pay attention to the class. The students made mistakes in their homework, wrote less and forgot to recite it. I sincerely guide and wait patiently. I also tell them stories and make sense. In a few days, my classmates gradually liked me. No one interrupts me casually in class, and I can also answer questions politely, think about problems on the spot, ask questions enthusiastically, and boldly sum up my learning methods. Therefore, I am very happy and gratified to see the progress of my classmates. I like children. I always thought: I am a teacher and I am also a parent. Which parent doesn't care about opportunities? Let's go ? So, the children are close to me. ?
? Being liked by one's own students and attached to those who have been taught is happiness, which is happiness.