Cultivate the habit of hugging children.

A growing boy needs more care and hug from his parents, and his mother should also care more about him. Always ask him about his recent study and life, praise him as much as possible, and make him feel that he is making progress every day. Even if he only changes two shortcomings, his mother's hug and encouragement are indispensable. At least, it will give him some confidence and let him know how to study more actively in the future. Studies have shown that a mother's gentle embrace of her baby is undoubtedly the most important for her baby's psychological development.

Please put down that "educating children" shelf.

Children are also independent people. When talking to them, we should kneel down. The "squatting" here is not only an action of squatting, but also a point of view of standing on the same side as the child. We always think we are knowledgeable and always

Indoctrinate children endlessly and take pains to correct their mistakes. This attitude that children can't do this or that will dampen their enthusiasm and make them lose their self-confidence. Only when a mother puts down her airs and communicates with her children on an equal footing can she really walk into the children's hearts and give them encouragement and help.

Lead by example and cultivate honest boys.

First, don't lie in front of children. If you want your children to be honest, mothers should set an example for them.

Second, children should be encouraged to admit their mistakes. When children do something wrong, lying may get away with it. In this case, the mother should first not worry, find out the reasons for the child's lying, understand the child's motives, and let the child understand that there is no need to lie, and naturally she is not afraid of punishment.

Third, affirm and praise the attitude of children to admit their mistakes. When a child admits a mistake, the doer should not blame him, but should affirm his attitude of admitting the mistake and make the child realize the value of honesty.

Fourth, punish children for lying. Appropriate punishment can let the child know the cost of lying, so that he won't make such mistakes again in the future. For example, a child breaks a bowl and lies. When you know the truth, you can punish your child to clean up the mess yourself.

Raising boys should be "cruel"

Educate boys. The most taboo is to spoil them. A boy who grew up in a doting environment can't expect him to succeed in the future.

Giving boys "special treatment" makes them feel superior. They become selfish, unsympathetic and uncaring for others.

All kinds of requirements for boys are "unconditional satisfaction", so that boys who grow up will become greedy for material enjoyment and have no patience and hard-working spirit.

Too much protection for boys, not letting them stay at home, playing with other children, and pressing hard, such boys will definitely become timid, have no self-confidence, rely too much on their families, or bully at home and become timid outside, resulting in serious personality defects.

Defending a boy's mistake has become "protecting the calf." When a boy makes a mistake, his mother always turns a blind eye, using the excuse that he is not too strict and the child is still young. In this way, children who grow up in the environment will become indifferent.