Poor family circumstances may also be a factor that motivates children to make progress. "Poor Students" and "Dude" let us know that children from poor families are not necessarily enterprising, and children born with golden spoons are not necessarily successful.
Now everyone attaches so much importance to the college entrance examination because it is the fairest and depends entirely on their own efforts and strength, and it is also the easiest way for poor students to change their fate.
It is not easy for ordinary people to get into Tsinghua, because Tsinghua Peking University is recognized as the two best universities in China, and it is not easy to get into Tsinghua.
If there is a paralyzed mother and a deranged father in your family, will you choose to feel sorry for yourself, let yourself go, or try to change your destiny?
Someone must be the former, and someone will be the latter. There is such a boy in Hebei, and his family situation is like this. But in the end, he was admitted to Tsinghua with a high score of 744 points and supported his family. He is Pang Zhongwang.
0 1 Different childhood
Most people's childhood should be relatively happy and carefree. What worries them most is that they didn't do well in the exam. They may be scolded by their parents when they go home, or they may not buy their favorite toy cars.
However, there is no need to worry about the economic source of life. Even if the family conditions are not so superior, they may just become left-behind children and live with their grandparents.
But Pang Zhongwang is different. Pang Zhongwang was born in a very poor family in Hebei. Pang Zhongwang's father suffers from schizophrenia and can't go out to earn money to support his family, while Pang Zhongwang's mother has been paralyzed in bed because of her childhood illness.
If you were born in such a family environment, most people would probably choose to feel sorry for themselves. Pang Zhongwang's family of five can only make a living by their elderly grandparents.
Pang Zhongwang, who had high hopes from his family, was diagnosed with congenital heart disease at the age of five, which made the poor family even worse. You know, it costs a lot of money to treat congenital heart disease. Pang Zhongwang's mother borrowed money everywhere to collect medical expenses for Pang Zhongwang, regardless of her family's opposition.
Pang Zhongwang, who has recovered from illness, is very sensible. He consciously undertakes housework at home, goes out to pick up garbage whenever he has time, and does farm work with his grandparents after school.
Pang Zhongwang is only six years old at this time, but he is as mature and sensible as a teenager. Pang Zhongwang didn't have a cram school or an interest class when he was a child. He can only give consideration to his studies and help his family to do something within his power.
Being sensible and filial is synonymous with him.
Although Pang Zhongwang was born in poverty and never attended cram school, he never let his family down academically. Pang Zhongwang's house is surrounded by walls, and the only thing that is not lacking is a certificate.
On the wall at home, all the awards that Pang Zhongwang won from childhood are hung. Seeing this, my parents, grandparents and grandparents are relieved. Although the family conditions remain the same, at least now we can pin our hopes on Pang Zhongwang.
Pang Zhongwang is also very sensible, and his family never needs to worry about academic matters. But it is precisely because Pang Zhongwang is so excellent that Pang Zhongwang's mother will be very entangled.
Pang Zhongwang's mother felt that her child was her pride, and she felt sorry for her child. She failed to provide him with a better environment for growing up, so that he was forced to be sensible from an early age. Whenever there is delicious food at home, Pang Zhongwang's mother will stay and give it to Pang Zhongwang.
From childhood to adulthood, Pang Zhongwang's height, weight and appearance are changing. The only constant is his understanding, filial piety and excellent quality. Most children will not have a rebellious period, and have been filial to their parents and grandparents for more than ten years. It is a blessing for a family to have such a child. This is the so-called other people's children.
Unexpectedly, after experiencing the 81 ST difficulty, Pang Zhongwang's family encountered another setback. When Pang Zhongwang was in the second grade of junior high school, Pang Zhongwang's mother suffered from very serious anemia and was admitted to the hospital.
Pang Zhongwang remembered how his mother went door to door to collect medical bills for him when he was a child, so Pang Zhongwang ignored his face and dignity and borrowed money from door to door to treat his mother. Pang Zhongwang's father also takes care of his mother day and night in the hospital.
Remain true to our original aspiration, and keep our mission firmly in mind.
No matter who meets such family conditions, it is normal to complain, but Pang Zhongwang has never complained about his background, his family conditions, and he has never felt inferior.
Instead, I always remember the scene where my mother lent me money, and I always remember the anxiety that my mother had no money at home. In Pang Zhongwang's heart, there has always been a firm voice telling him to study hard and get ahead.
Sure enough, he didn't live up to his family's expectations, nor did he live up to himself.
In 20 17, Pang Zhongwang got a good score of 684 in the college entrance examination, with a total score of 744. With such a high score, Pang Zhongwang was successfully admitted to Tsinghua.
After entering the university, Pang Zhongwang did not lose himself. He still studies and earns money to support his family. Perhaps it is "the children of the poor are in charge early." Pang Zhongwang in the university showed excellent hands-on ability and organizational ability, and was deeply loved by teachers and classmates.
04 conclusion
Most of us were born in ordinary families, saying that every family has its own problems. Every family has a hard experience, but society will not be soft-hearted and show mercy to you because of these hard experiences.
Only by recognizing the reality, finding the right direction and making unremitting efforts for it can we really get ahead. Pang Zhongwang would not have achieved such good results if he hoped for social pity because of his poor family environment.
Although Pang Zhongwang has been living in a poor family, he has never looked down on himself and never felt sorry for himself. We will certainly encounter various problems, big and small, in our daily life, but only by facing these problems bravely can we really solve them.
If you choose to escape, you will only be a mediocre person in your life. You still have to decide what to do with your life.