2. Listen carefully to children's words, respect and understand children, actively adopt children's opinions, treat children as friends, and give them confidence and dignity.
3. When the child is upset, don't directly scold and blame the child. First, keep a calm attitude towards children and observe quietly. After the child's mood has calmed down a little, then carry out side consultation and cut in, and communicate with the child with the mentality of an old friend. Eliminate children's troubles and grumpy emotions.
Parents should not be too anxious when children are inexplicably upset. They should use diversion methods to divert children's attention, such as taking children to swim, riding bicycles, playing ball games, and venting and diverting their emotions with activities.
When children are often angry and sad because of a trivial matter, parents should adopt a tolerant attitude, but they must explain the truth to their children at ordinary times or after the incident, conduct psychological counseling, and teach them how to avoid and excrete irritability, how to maintain an optimistic attitude, how to be the master of emotions, and how to be their own master.
6. Formulate family reward and punishment system and appreciation education. Every time a child's mood is unstable, parents should make a small reminder and register it once a week, telling the child the stage of bad mood this week, telling the child that there will be less next week, constantly restraining themselves and improving themselves.