How to teach timid children? Parents please put away their desire for protection and give their children a little' wolf nature'. Many parents have been unable to accept their desire for protection as parents. When they think about protecting their children from harm, they forget that their children will leave home one day and work hard for social development. If the child is too timid, it must be a lack of' wolf nature'. Parents should let go moderately and shape their children's independent personality in this way.
How to add "wolf" to children? 1, let the children be alone. Children can actually do things independently at a certain age, but because of their parents' excessive concern, children rarely have the opportunity to go out alone and make friends alone. In the long run, they will feel dependent. Since childhood, parents need to let their children do things by themselves, such as buying fruit, going to school and doing housework alone. If you are really worried about your child's injury, you can change "maintenance" to "waiting", wait for your child behind you, tell your child that you can feel at ease and let him overlook the world from an independent perspective.
2, the opportunity to say' no' to children, parents' excessive care and maintenance, it is very easy to wear children's thoughts, leading to children losing the opportunity to resist themselves. Wolves can often survive under the cruel laws of nature, but they know how to resist setbacks. If parents blindly hope that their children are clever, their children will only become more and more depressed and timid. Parents must attach importance to their children's right to say' no', let them participate in the strategic decision-making of family life and let them feel their importance and consciousness.
3. Let children get in touch with children's social circles and theme activity circles around the world. Parents cannot play a decisive role, but they can play a guiding role. Only by giving children opportunities to meet friends and get in touch with the outside world can children adapt to this complex society more. The faster they know the world, the faster they will integrate into it.