"Tutoring" is the education of parents or elders at home. Parents are children's first teachers, and almost all children's early education should be their responsibility. Therefore, family education is the most basic education and is often called "rooted education".
A child without a good tutor, no matter how excellent his school education is, can hardly achieve great success in his life because he has no good foundation. It's like a piece of paper with many marks on it. It is undoubtedly extremely difficult to draw beautiful pictures on it.
This sentence comes from Saint Amethyst. If the son doesn't teach, the father is guilty, the teacher is lazy. It is not appropriate not to learn. What can I do if I don't learn?
It is the father's fault that the child is not well educated. Educating students is not strict, which is laziness as a teacher It is wrong to be a child without studying hard; When I was young, I refused to work hard and study hard. What can you do when you are old?
Anecdotal allusions
Once upon a time, there was a robber who did many evils. After doing all kinds of bad things, he was finally caught by the arrest of the yamen. Because he committed many unforgivable crimes, the county magistrate sentenced him to death. Before the execution, the county grandfather asked him what he wanted, and the robber said, "I want to see my mother one last time."
The county magistrate ordered someone to invite his mother. When they met, the mother was very sad and cried with her son in her arms. Who knows, the robber bit off his mother's ear mercilessly and said bitterly, "I hate that my mother never taught me a lesson when I made a mistake, and now it's too late to regret it." The robber's mother is half responsible for his fate!
In the Qing Dynasty, General Zuo's subordinates made great contributions, so Zuo was promoted to an official position. However, many unbelievers refused to work for him on the grounds that Zhang Yao had never studied. Zhang Yao knew that he couldn't be an official because he couldn't read, so he was very sad, so he studied hard and finally won back his official position with his knowledge.