First, perfunctory children's requirements. The company you give your children is especially critical! But many parents are best at perfunctory children. Waiting, not just with the children. Doing your own thing while accompanying your child is not helpful for your child to deal with his own problems, which is equivalent to not waiting. Children's growth needs parents to see.

Second, there is no careful persuasion. Scolding is the simplest way of education, because parents can only vent their emotions on their children. Parents who can't control their emotions will send their temper to their children. Especially when you are in a bad mood, you can't see the child's good, only see the child's bad, and ruin the child with indifference. Like an invisible knife, every emotional catharsis is heavily cut in the child's heart.

Third, do not reply to children's hopes. Some parents simply disdain their children's ideas, while others stay away from their children, for example, staying at home, unable to reply to their children's hopes. But in either case, it will obviously hurt the child's emotional expression ability. Parents often complain that their children don't want to talk to themselves and can't let go of what their children are thinking, even if they scold him, they are like a piece of wood. Children don't want to communicate with their parents because they don't feel the recognition, attention and concern of their parents.

Fourth, criticize and manipulate children's thoughts. Remind parents that numbers are not cultural education, but pure, cathartic and cold violence that evades responsibility. Meaningless preaching bored children. Children have their own ideas, but many parents don't agree with them and try to manipulate their ideas through criticism. "I ate more salt along the way than you did." I firmly believe that some people say that no parents have not said it. Parents can't always think that they are right, and educating their children is not based on work experience. So, what is the more meaningful criticism? It is communication.

Fifth, expect too much from children. The higher the expectation, the greater the pressure. Children are not equipment, and they can run overloaded without some work pressure! On the road of life, investment is usually not easy to be positively related to income. Just because parents invest time and energy in their children's money doesn't mean that children need the same income as their parents. Cultural education for children should not be too utilitarian. I expect many parents to be careful, pay attention to their children and accompany them to grow up while waiting for their children. The best gift for children is to set an example without knowing their parents' words and deeds.