Children in early childhood are self-centered everywhere, and I don't know if I want to live in the same world with them. They often say "I want it, I want it". At this time, parents should educate them according to the situation:
First, parents demonstrate: set an example and teach children how to get along with other children in a friendly and polite way. The ability to coordinate with others is cultivated from an early age, and children benefit a lot from it all their lives.
Second, less criticism and more encouragement: too much criticism will make children feel at a loss and produce inferiority complex. Appropriate praise should be given to stimulate children's enthusiasm and pursuit of beautiful things. Parents are well aware of the characteristics and defects of their children's personality and should praise their children's good performance. Bad behavior and bad tendencies should not be tolerated. It is necessary to carry out appropriate education and criticism, help children in a targeted manner, let children develop their strengths and avoid weaknesses in character, and let children understand right and wrong, likes and dislikes.
Third, gradually relax restrictions: give children love and cultivate their self-esteem. This kind of love also includes restrictions and constraints on bad behavior. When a child goes off the rails, the mother should express your disappointment with the behavior itself, not with the child. As children grow up, the restrictions should be gradually relaxed.
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Early childhood education can also be divided into broad sense and narrow sense. Broadly speaking, all purposeful activities that can affect children's physical growth and cognitive, emotional and personality development, such as watching TV, doing housework and participating in social activities under the guidance of adults, can be said to be early childhood education. Preschool education in a narrow sense refers to the education of kindergartens and other specialized preschool education institutions.
Kindergarten education belongs to the school education system in China. Like school education, kindergarten education also has advantages that family education and social education do not have, such as planning and systematization.
Kindergarten education focuses on preschool teachers and devotes itself to publicizing the policies of the Party and the state on preschool education, reflecting the achievements of preschool education research and reform, exchanging experiences in kindergarten, nursery and family education, introducing information on preschool education at home and abroad, and providing information on preschool education activities and teaching reference materials.
This involves the division of people's age stages and the division of educational objects. Life can be divided into several stages according to age, such as infancy (0 ~ 3 years old), infancy (3 ~ 6 years old), childhood (6 ~ 1 1, 12 years old) and adolescence (1 1,/kloc). Therefore, to suit people of different ages, education must be carried out in stages.
According to American psychologist James, intelligence develops fastest before the age of 5. For a child aged 65,438+08, 50% of his intelligence was acquired before the age of 4, 30% before the age of 4-8 and 20% before the age of 8-65,438+08.
Studies by American physiologists also show that babies are the fastest period of brain physiological development. The weight of an adult's brain is about1400g, about1000g at the age of 4, and about1300g at the age of 8.
Japanese scholar Mu Shu Kuiyi pointed out that children's potential ability follows a decreasing law, that is, a child with a potential ability of 100 at birth can become a person with a potential ability of 100 if he is educated at birth, and a person with a potential ability of 80 if he is educated at the age of five.
This shows that the child's brain develops rapidly. In the period of rapid development of children's intelligence, the role of early education is also particularly great, because intelligence is closely related to education and social environment. If children are properly educated in the right way during this period, the effect can be imagined.
References:
Baidu encyclopedia-early childhood education