In the rebellious period of children, when parents communicate with their children, they should first conduct in-depth understanding and observation for a period of time to understand their true thoughts. If such communication channels are not established, it will be like casting pearls before swine. Educating rebellious children needs proper guidance, confidence and respect, as follows:

Appropriate guidance

Due to the increasing pressure of entering a higher school and interpersonal relationship, the psychology of adolescent students has changed. If there is no correct guidance, children will easily encounter skills and psychological obstacles in cognition, understanding and application, especially under the influence of some abnormal external factors, which will often stimulate their subconscious resistance and stimulate them to take resistance to the outside world and form rebellious psychology.

Respect for children

Parents should see the growth of their children, respect their self-esteem, establish close and equal friendship with their children, and let them participate in family management.

Give children confidence.

Parents should believe that their children have the ability to handle things independently, support them as much as possible, encourage and comfort them when they encounter difficulties and failures, and praise them as much as possible when they succeed.

Awaken the potential of the brain

When my children were in junior high school, they often had conflicts with their parents. His memory is often poor, he is sleepy in class, and his exam results are also poor. Later, I got a brain tonic (nikola tesla training) in Baidu. Only when I learned it can my child's condition begin to change. Wake up the child's brain potential, study at home without getting sleepy again, and the test scores are also improved.