2. Trust children, give them more freedom and space, let them handle their own affairs, and don't interfere in their affairs.
3. Don't just care about your child's academic performance, don't say that your child is wrong, make your child bored, don't compare your child with other people's children, and don't be embarrassed to talk to your child.
4. Encourage and praise children. Parents should give positive comments on their children's ideas and practices, don't hurt their self-esteem, and find more bright spots in their children.
5. Accept your child's shortcomings. When a child's behavior is found to be deviated, parents should not force or attack the child, but can correct the child through positive guidance. Parents should be more tolerant of their children, allow them to have different views and opinions, learn to accept their negative emotions and help them find solutions to problems.
6, teach by example, lead by example, prevent micro-duration, point-to-point, heuristic, not too long-winded, the focus of the child's mistakes is to let him know and correct, not too punished, and not always entangled. Let the past pass forever, as long as it doesn't happen again.
7. Let children do more outdoor sports, participate in some group activities, see more and experience many beautiful things in life.
8. Put down your airs and be a "strategist" for girls' growth. When a girl is fighting for independence, parents should not suppress her for various reasons, because it is easy to arouse her rebellious heart; On the contrary, take a step back, be a girl's "mentor" and help her make suggestions to realize her desire for independence. She will be grateful to you.