Dr. Dong Jinyu, who is known as the first parent-child relationship in China, wrote in his book: The idea of educating children is to stimulate their learning motivation, so what is their learning motivation? In my opinion, one is interest in learning, and the other is encouragement and praise from parents. How to stimulate children's interest in learning? This may be a question of many parents. Parents can stimulate their children's interest by asking questions. Every day after their children come home, parents can ask them to tell them what they have learned today. Parents can use some humorous language to guide their children to think that learning is a happy thing. Don't always say things that are not easy to learn in front of children, so that children will feel that both parents say it is difficult, and I will definitely not, resulting in a lazy mentality. There is also encouragement and praise for children when they make progress, so that children can feel the joy of parents' praise and have more interest and enthusiasm for learning.

Second, help children find a learning method that suits them.

Many children have poor grades because they have not found a good learning method. Parents will also see that sometimes, children study hard and seriously, but their grades are still not satisfactory. This actually shows that children have not found a good learning method, and everyone's learning method is different. Some children are suitable for high-pressure study, some children are suitable for easy study, some children study efficiently at night, and some children study efficiently in the morning. This is different. What parents need to do is.

Third, don't judge heroes by their achievements and put too much pressure on children.

For children, the most feared thing is that parents ask for results after the exam. Parents should not take the results too seriously. They have to give their children a lot of learning tasks and set goals for them every day, so that they are under great pressure and may fail in the exam.

Learning should not be everything to children, and parents should not always scold their children in the face of poor grades. It is useless to scold children, and it may also damage the parent-child relationship. The key for parents is to find out the reasons for their poor grades and then correct them in order to get good grades.

Children also have strong self-esteem. No child wants to do well in the exam, but often children with poor grades will be more sensitive and even have inferiority complex, so parents must find good educational methods to help their children improve their grades.