In my opinion, this is a prejudice, an irresponsible and dangerous education!
Happy education is a scientific discussion and reform relative to the coercion and compulsion of "exam-oriented education", which emphasizes students' happy learning psychology and personalized development. In essence, it is a reform of teaching methods and means, aiming not only at mastering subject knowledge, but also at improving students' skills and quality. Therefore, it should be regarded as a scientific, advanced and modern educational concept.
However, some people mistakenly understand "happy education" as playful, wild, absolutely free and "whatever" education, which is why "happy education" is the fastest way to abolish a child. "The wrong view.
In order to fully explain their views, Sanwei specially consulted relevant articles on the Internet, and saw an article entitled "To parents: Abolishing a child is a quick way, that is, advocating happy education", written by a netizen. The core point of the article is to advocate forcing children to study hard.
There are some representative words in the article, and "Sanwei" is willing to discuss with the author and netizens, which is the answer to this question.
"Sanwei" believes that happy education is by no means to indulge children or lower their requirements, but to let children take the initiative to "enjoy learning" under the requirements of ensuring exam-taking and quality development. Only when they find happy people in their studies can they study more effectively. As for "forcing" children to study, it is strictly a failure of education.
Why do some students like and expect some teachers' classes? The reason is that teachers are interesting in class and students are willing to learn. On the contrary, some teachers' classes are lifeless, and students are always unwilling to listen or even skip classes. It is useless for parents to force their children to study. That's the truth.
People who study happily when they are young are incompetent when they are adults? This is ridiculous!
Education is to learn knowledge and skills and to prepare for the needs of life. How did it become the embodiment of pain? Perhaps the process of seeking knowledge is very hard, but after learning it, you will have a sense of accomplishment and be very happy. The so-called pleasure in suffering!
Is the formation of children's independent personality and the cultivation of their ability to create a better life forced by their parents or learned by themselves? The answer is self-evident
It is foolish to oppose "happy education", to be too lazy to explore students' enthusiasm and initiative in learning, and to excessively advocate parents' "cruel coercion"! Not only can not get the ideal learning effect, but it is also likely to bring tragedy to children and families!
According to the survey, the suicide rate of children in China ranks first in the world. A very important reason is that under the exam-oriented education, children are forced to bear heavy learning pressure, and they can't feel happiness in their studies, and they can't see joy and hope in their lives!
Therefore, "Sanwei" always believes that how to make children learn easily and happily is not only an important issue for all parents, but also for all educators!
Happy education is the fastest way to make children disabled.
My views on this issue may be a little extreme. I think happy education is destroying a child, and soon. Why do you say that?
What is the national condition of our country? Every child is busy for the exam. Do you think that the model of "quiz every three days, big exam every five days" is just a generalization? Are you satisfied with the militarized management of Hengshui? They can achieve such impressive results, but can "happy education" be taught? Don't you think it's a little funny to talk about "happy education" now?
Based on the national conditions and the starting point of education, "happy education" cannot be realized in a short time. That's the educational model of other countries. Just envy it. Go back to reality and study hard.
What is happiness? The original meaning of happiness: feeling happy or satisfied.
Then I want to ask those students who are struggling for the senior high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination at the moment, are you happy? Of course, some people will say "Happy, I am fighting for my dream". There is a dream in my heart, and I have forgotten the pain at this time. But I have to admit that physical fatigue does exist.
Then look at college students. Are you happy? Of course, I am very happy. A dormitory eats chicken all night and takes panda eyes to Shu Gao in the morning. Are you happy? What is waiting for them?
Exam-oriented education, talk and happiness? Any education based on "happiness" is a delusion and an idiotic dream. Learning is painful, and learning badly is lifelong.
You are happy, I don't deny that you can learn knowledge, maybe you can learn it well, but after all, it is a minority and it is impossible to have a small probability event.
Not letting children lose at the starting line has almost become the tacit understanding of every parent. Interest classes and training institutions followed. Any far-sighted parents, who dares to relax their children's study? 1985 Parents who graduated are still worried that their children in kindergarten have not become class cadres.
Let's take a look at high school students now. Any parent who comes out and says that my son is happy every day, I will let the child go by "happy education". Who dares to say that?
The students sat on the bench, their eyes almost narrowed. Isn't a pair of thick glasses normal? Maybe we can "happily educate" children to become talents. But it is unrealistic to educate students in the way of "happy education".
Under the background of exam-oriented education, happiness means relaxation. If you relax, you will fall behind, and if you fall behind, you will be beaten. "Xueba never has a rest day" has long been an ironclad fact. Tiger parents have educated excellent children.
When "happy education" collides with exam-oriented education, it will cause educational division. I can even understand it as "those who shout the slogan of happy education every day are excuses to escape from reality". The ideal is full, but the reality does not allow you to do so. Every child in China has to undergo exam-oriented education to some extent.
At first, happy education came from the west, so China people also put forward the slogan of "happy education". Can China be like other countries? Those western countries have a small population, and they can get a good job even without going to college. But in China, can you?
Undergraduate students walk around, master students become dogs, and doctors shake three times. Which one is not by hard sweat?