Professor Li Meijin mentioned in the psychology lecture that children's problems are often caused by adults as parents. Every child's behavior and psychology must be related to family education. Maybe the mother loves her too much and wants to give the best to her children. Education naturally trains him to be the best. I don't know what mother's practice will mislead the children. The mother's wrong practice caused the children to be inconsiderate of their parents and have no filial piety when they grow up.

Miss Li Meijin: Most unfilial children are such mothers. Are you among them?

One: Mom with low emotional intelligence

The most obvious performance of mothers with low emotional intelligence is that their love for their children is either implicit or severe.

For example, when the child does something wrong, the mother likes to beat and scold the child in front of everyone without thinking and say all kinds of things that hurt the child. Seriously hurt the child's self-esteem, and the child's character will become withdrawn and inferior.

Children naturally don't want to be close to their parents. When you grow up, you will naturally stay as far away as possible.

Two: Mothers who seldom care about their children.

Children with a sense of security in their hearts are especially sunny and cheerful, full of hope and love for people and things.

If a mother lacks companionship and care for her children, then she is indifferent in life, study and psychology. Children grow up in a loveless environment for a long time, not only insecure, but also alienated from their parents.

Children naturally don't want to live with their parents when they grow up.

Three: Mothers who prefer sons to daughters

Needless to say, his harm on the issue of' preference for boys over girls'. Last year's TV series Everything is Fine, the protagonist's mother was really hard on her daughter.

Under such circumstances, my daughter left home at the age of 18, and broke up with her family with resentment and never met again.

A patriarchal mother turns a blind eye to her daughter, and so does her spoiled son. When her children grow up, her daughter has no feelings for you, and her son asks for your selfless love infinitely.

One will be far away from home, and the other may become a vampire.

Four: a strong mother

A mother with a strong personality is a devil in the eyes of children. It's up to you, I don't want a mother like you.' This is what my colleague's child said himself.

The mother's strength bound the child and set him free.

He felt as if he were locked in a cage at home. When they step into social independence, they will try their best to stay away from their mothers. I don't even want to hear my mother's voice or look at her photos.

The mother is not only the child's first teacher, but also the child's closest friend. Only by respecting and caring for children can children be grateful and' feedback'.

So what should mom do? In fact, it is very simple: it is to set an example. Children are a mirror of their parents, and they will learn from their parents' practices. If parents want their children to develop good behavior habits, they should lead by example and set a good example for their children from an early age.

Educate children what is right and wrong, what to do and what not to do, and let them establish a correct outlook on life.

Children aged 3 and a half to 6 years old are the key period to cultivate good behavior habits. Parents should set a good example for their children and correct and guide them correctly when their children have problems. Let children have good behavior habits and ethics.

Professor Li Meijin once said that reading suitable picture books to children from an early age is helpful to cultivate their good character and behavior, and children are more willing to accept the guidance of picture book stories than parents' preaching. Reading picture books at the same time can also increase children's vocabulary and improve their reading ability.

The most important education for children is education after birth. We can't just say that children are born smart and let nature take its course, and parents should cultivate them the day after tomorrow.

Buy a children's picture book for children, and children will learn as if they were in a book. It is more conducive to the development of children's behavior habits. But it will let children learn a lot of knowledge. Reading can activate brain cells, and children who like reading are smarter! Children who have developed reading habits since childhood are more sensitive to reading when they are 3.5 -6 years old. Good training during this period will help children form lifelong reading habits!

This set of picture books about children's emotional management and character cultivation is very good, with a total of 10. Bilingual picture books are also very helpful for parents to inspire their children's English thinking. Before the age of 3, parents can read it to their children as a bedtime story book. When you are 3-6 years old, you should make a story book to help children manage their emotions and develop a good character.