After reading Parents' Education Book (1) Children, with the help of teachers and parents, she quickly adapted to school life, gradually developed good study habits and became a qualified primary school student. Here, I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to all teachers for their hard education and meticulous care for their children.
My biggest feeling after reading this book is that a good family learning environment and atmosphere will make children have good study habits. And a person who has a good habit will benefit people for life. Family is the second class for children, and parents are teachers' assistants. Here, I will talk about my own experience on children's growth education.
First, family education should start with self-education.
Parents who like reading books and forget their work will leave a deep impression on their children. At the same time, it plays a subtle role in them. You can't just talk about children's learning. Parents must do what their children are asked to do first. Nowadays, there are many ways for children to contact information, and the amount of information is also very large. Sometimes the questions they ask will inevitably confuse adults. Adults can't do without studying. So we often buy books and read books. When you read a book, the children will naturally look beside you. Sometimes taking children to exercise will also raise some common sense questions. This not only exercises the body but also satisfies the children's thirst for knowledge, killing two birds with one stone. We ask our children to do things seriously. After the child finishes her homework, we will check it for her. If you find her handwriting scrawled, you will ask her to erase it and rewrite it. Sometimes, she can't bear to part with it, but she can't be soft-hearted. She must remember that if she doesn't do it well the first time, she should make more efforts. So be sure to do things seriously and do your best.
Don't like everything too much, but don't be too laissez-faire.
Nowadays, parents know that they can't spoil their children too much, and they can't give them whatever they want to meet their requirements. This makes it easy for children to restrain themselves in behavior, which eventually leads to poor self-control, lack of self-motivation, and lack of courage and perseverance to overcome difficulties. As the child grows up, we will let her do some small things in life. Sometimes help adults do what they can. We want her to understand that she should not only study well, but also learn to live and care for everyone.
Don't expect too much, but be strict.
Parents want their children to succeed, and we share this mentality, but we won't force her to learn what she doesn't like. Try to let children do what they like. I have a wide range of interests and hobbies, work hard, and be a useful person to society in the future.
Fourth, create a good family learning environment for children.
We shouldn't watch TV and play computer beside the child when she is doing her homework. We can read some professional books or read some novels and magazines. The novels and magazines that our children read are all read by our parents, which will facilitate communication with our children.
5. Treat children as friends, understand more, praise more, encourage more, criticize less and blame less.
The distance between people is terrible, even between parents and children. I think: if we can find the right time to communicate with our children, get to know each other, put ourselves in their shoes and give them more care, then this kind of effort will definitely pay off. As a child, everyone wants to be the best, but it is impossible to be the first every time. I don't ask children to do great things, but I ask them to do every little thing in a down-to-earth way. You don't care about the result, but you must pay attention to the process.
Being a man is the foundation of a child's life. To make children successful, we must first teach them to be human. This is the most important task of family education. Of course, good behavior habits and study habits cannot be cultivated overnight. As long as we have patience, perseverance and perseverance, I believe every child can shine his brightest light. Children's growth is inseparable from the fertile soil of the school and the hard work of the gardener. I also hope that teachers will take care of all children and make their tomorrow better!
Reflection on Parents' Education Books (2) Family education is the key to a child's growth and development. From infancy to childhood, our children's thoughts are gradually mature, and children have their own understanding and unique ideas. At this time, parents and children should patiently communicate and patiently guide their children to correct their concepts. Listen to children's thoughts and opinions and treat children as our best friends.
To be a qualified parent, we need to have good educational methods, cultivate children's good mentality, be grateful for life, love labor and love learning. It is a good wish of every parent to hope that their children are the best. When children have problems, they can't always complain and scold.
When I first started learning pinyin in grade one, my children always couldn't keep up with the progress. Every time I teach him many times, I don't know what to do. I was impatient and shouted, "What a fool! I still can't teach it many times. " The child is uncomfortable and wronged. You can't remember. In fact, children themselves will not be in a hurry. He heard him read aoe and Pinyin in several dreams. Think about the pressure of children's study. Later, I slowly changed my method and taught him slowly and patiently. If not, I'll come back later. If I can, I will encourage and praise him, talk and laugh, and study easily. Soon, the level of pinyin improved. Therefore, children should be given a pleasant environment when studying.
Children's family education is different from school education. It has no fixed pattern, but it doesn't mean there is no way. No matter what problems children have, we can find similar cases that want to solve their problems from this book. We can learn from it. When a child encounters difficulties and setbacks in his study and life, we should help him, encourage him and praise him. Let the children feel the warmth from the heart and feel the strength of the family. Parents who educate their children need to constantly improve themselves and give their children a good, sunny and warm example.
Reflections on Parents' Education Reader (III) The book Family Education comprehensively expounds how parents should educate their children. Their views and methods are very comprehensive and practical, which helps me to put forward practical and scientific education methods in all aspects of educating children, and makes me deeply realize the importance of family education, thus guiding me how to educate children in my future life and study.
I used to think that it was enough for children to have teachers to manage education at school. As parents, it is enough to create a reasonable learning environment for children, as long as they learn to be good. Actually, it's much more than that.
The first chapter of this book is about accepting and affirming my children, which I could not do before. I always feel that my child is not good anywhere, and I always say his shortcomings in front of them, which is very bad. To treat a growing child, every parent needs to have a sense of accepting him unconditionally, affirming him and protecting him. Only when parents accept all the behaviors of their children can they truly understand their behaviors. Only when parents affirm their children's behaviors can they activate their upward growth instinct. Only when parents protect their children's body and mind unconditionally can they create a free and broad space for their children to grow up.
The second chapter is about developing children's social ability in parent-child interaction. As parents, we all love our children! Love for children is often the deepest feeling we have ever experienced in our life. We may not always be able to express this feeling, but this kind of love undoubtedly plays a huge role in our lives. The center of our precious relationship with children is our time to rest, entertain and communicate with them. Children in grade two should have more opportunities for teamwork and team competition, and I will let him actively participate in it.
The third chapter is about how to guide children's interest. My children are interested in playing, but not in learning. After reading this chapter, it turned out that our parents did not guide his interest in learning. Just like reading, he never has the habit of reading when he comes home. I will apply the fifteen tricks mentioned in the reference book to my children.
Education is a future-oriented cause, and family education plays an important role in school education and social education. "The sky is high enough for birds to fly; The sea is wide enough for fish to jump. " I hope that parents will do a good job in guiding their children and lead them to seek endless knowledge and exercise more abilities in endless exploration.
First of all, thank the education department for providing such a detailed analysis report. As a parent, I may not be able to explain my feelings after reading it in just 800 words, but I believe that all parents who are dedicated to their children will bring a good effect to our education.
Modern children's education is not what it was after 1980s. With the development of society and the progress of the times, a new generation of children are accepting more extensive and richer knowledge under the ever-changing background of the times. This in itself has brought a great sense of lag to parents.
Seeing all kinds of cases in the readers, I have to envy the children's pace. At the same time, parents also have a sense of urgency. If they don't keep pace with the times and learn new knowledge, they will let their children cheat. How to guide children to grow up happily and healthily and how to guide them to become useful people? Not only the education department is worried, but every parent is also worried day and night.
In my opinion, under the background of the rapid development of information economy, children have entered the society from the first day of school. They can come into contact with everything they understand or don't understand in this world, and the judgment of right or wrong depends entirely on the guidance of parents and teachers. For example, my friend's daughter went to a large kindergarten class and didn't eat vegetables since she was a child, and she firmly believed that peppers had no nutrition, which affected her third-grade brother to have the same problem. The reason is that her grandmother never eats vegetables. She was brought up by her grandmother. The problem of guiding children may even lead to tension between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the family, so we have to pay attention to it! And the guidance of children's enlightenment stage is very important for their growth!
Whether at school or at home, a child's thirst for knowledge is obvious. As the saying goes, newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, and they always ask endless questions. We can't turn a blind eye, we can't tell him that he will understand when he grows up, and we can't be impatient and ask him not to ask. We must tell him the truth in detail, whether he will understand or not. Today's children are not what we were ten or twenty years ago. They are much more exposed than we are. If you don't tell him, someone will. Do you want him to listen to your guidance or someone else's?
The problem is that parents have to work for a living. Both big stars and ordinary people must face a problem and make money. Not to mention patient guidance, even simple playing with children is rare. So there are various educational institutions, trusteeship, training courses ... but for parents, do they really think it is safe to put their children there? No, most parents will say that they are busy with work and have no time. Well, there is an inextricable knot. It's not that I don't want my child to succeed, but I don't have time to make money and let my child have a good environment. It's just that my child can't get correct and sufficient care and guidance. What can a good life be like?
As parents, the most important thing is to have a good relationship with children. If you want to have a good relationship, let him listen to himself and study hard, you have to know and understand your child. Yes, we are all experienced people, but our times are different from theirs. Children are actually very simple, very simple. As long as you kneel down and look him in the eye and play with him, you are his trustworthy partner, and you can walk into his world, understand the reasons for his happiness and his hobbies. You may say, there is no time and so on, but it is actually very simple to do.
At home, pick up the child from school, tell him what you did after work today, and treat him as a little adult, and he will have a sense of honor. Doing homework is just like dealing with work. If you have questions to discuss with him, he learns not only the rules and regulations in books, but also the ways to deal with things. This seems to be time-consuming and laborious, but it will also get twice the result with half the effort, and he will gradually become independent. The exam is the mid-year and year-end performance appraisal, just like your usual work. If you do your homework well, your grades will naturally be good.
In this way, bringing children into their own roles and putting themselves into their children's world is the relationship between parents and children, and it is the relationship between friends and small partners. Be a qualified parent in the child's heart, enjoy the happiness brought by the child, have him, like him, love him and care about him.
The above is my personal understanding of children's education. Caring for the flowers of the motherland is a great responsibility and requires continuous learning. I hope to have more opportunities to discuss and learn from the education department. Thank you!