Entering the fifth grade is a period when children demand independence in an all-round way. It is also a period when children's physical and mental development changes dramatically. Children's sense of independence and adult consciousness began to awaken, and they were eager to get rid of the shackles of their parents and act independently according to their own intentions and ideas.
First, the psychological contradiction between longing for independence and relying on parents in reality:
Adolescence is a period in which children's self-awareness develops rapidly. During this period, the most prominent changes in children's psychology are "sense of adulthood" and the realization that "I am no longer a child". He wants his parents to treat them like adults.
At this time, he hated that his parents were still like children, asking questions about his activities and nagging about his affairs. But at the same time, he has no independent economic base and material conditions. He wants to get rid of his parents' dependence, so that the more he wants to get rid of his parents, the more he finds himself inseparable from their care and help.
Second, the psychological contradiction between psychological atresia and the desire to understand:
Children begin to have their own secrets and are no longer willing to tell their parents everything. Although the inner world has become more colorful, the external performance of psychological activities has begun to lose the straightforwardness, innocence and simplicity of children. Locking up here means not revealing your secrets to people who don't know your heart.