The expert replied: I'm worried that I won't have a premarital examination if I find out the disease. "It is better not to know that I am sick." This is just a lucky and self-deceiving idea, which is harmful to both of you.
There is no denying that once the other person is found to have physical problems, he will go through an ideological struggle and his feelings will be tested. This point should be fully taken into account when you decide to get married and have a premarital examination. Both sides should be psychologically prepared, which must be faced.
Actually, it's not terrible to have problems. The scary thing is that you don't know each other at all. Once you have problems with your health or marriage and childbirth after marriage, it will bring a shadow or even irreparable influence to your later life. The combination between men and women should be based on mutual trust, mutual respect and mutual understanding, so that when faced with some unexpected problems, they can calmly deal with them. In fact, tempered feelings are the most perfect.
I hope you can have a frank premarital examination, which is also a sign of mutual respect and frankness and will deepen your feelings.
Is it still meaningful that the premarital examination didn't find out the disease?
Pre-marital examination is far from what you know, just a physical examination, the purpose is not only to find out what problems, but also more.
In addition to a comprehensive physical examination, necessary laboratory tests or other laboratory tests, you can also get the help of a doctor before marriage. If you have any questions, please consult your doctor. For example, you can ask your doctor about your doubts or fears about your newly-married sex life, what to do if you don't want to get pregnant immediately after marriage, what problems are easy to appear in the process of newly-married life, and so on. As an inquirer, you can ask the doctor questions that you couldn't solve in the past by going to the hospital or reading books by yourself.
The doctor will also give you health education when you have a physical examination before marriage. Health education is related to your health and a series of problems you may encounter after marriage. You can also get more knowledge by watching videos and brochures, which is very beneficial to you.
In addition, what is more needed is that people have many diseases that are not easily detected by themselves. These diseases may have no symptoms, and if they continue to develop for a long time, they will have an impact on themselves or each other, and even affect your descendants. For example, the "Three Yang" and "HIV-infected people" we often mention are often ignored and not tested because they are virus carriers and have no symptoms and no physical discomfort. In fact, this virus is contagious. If you are infected and not found in time, it will definitely affect your health and even your future life. Premarital check-up is to help you find these diseases or conditions that affect marriage and childbearing, reduce the spread of diseases, and not only protect your own health, but also protect your offspring.
During the premarital check-up, for some physical conditions that you don't know, such as irregular menstruation and short penis, the doctor will also make suggestions on whether it will affect marriage and childbirth, which can't be obtained by daily physical examination. In view of these situations, the doctor will also advise you to have some necessary tests.
If you don't get sick after the premarital examination, it means that you are all healthy, which is of course a good thing. At the same time, you can get so many health consultations without wasting time!