Remember Li Dongbao played by Ge You? He is kind and upright, but not clever enough. He has been pursuing the beautiful Ge Ling without success.
What impresses me most about love is that he once said such a passage-
In that era full of illusions about love, how many people took this sentence as a joke, and now, how many people are afraid to face love.
The older you grow up, the more complicated the society becomes, and even loving someone becomes cautious.
In fact, we once loved each other simply and boldly, but I don't know when it started, and suddenly I found it difficult to love-
In a fast-paced society, everyone is trying to move forward. Who wants to cater to another person's mood after the novelty of puppy love has passed?
When the enthusiasm gradually dissipates and you want to maintain a relationship, you will only be tired.
Since you can't get it, enough is enough.
Not many people in the world know you, so it is a great blessing to meet a partner who really suits you.
And as the lines say, can lovers really get married? It seems not, because we are past the age of love.
Adult love is about material things. No money, no love, no house, no desire to get married.
When we grow up, we are used to pinning our sense of security on money. How stupid must a person be to spend his life with a person who has nothing?
A friend broke up the other day, and his girlfriend of seven years dumped him. The reason is simple, because he has no money, not seven years ago, nor after seven years.
When we came out for a drink, we all said that his ex-girlfriend worshipped money and was wronged by him. But my friend frowned and simply said-
"What's wrong with her? She has been suffering with me for so many years. Why should she continue to suffer? "
After saying this, my friend drank a glass of wine and swallowed all the grievances and boredom.
This may be the love of adults. You should learn to accept disappointment, accept the gap, and get used to material-based love.
In this play, the most unexpected role should be Zhang Guoli, who played Zhao Yonggang as a "sissy" and was called a "little sissy".
When the audience saw him, his strange behavior made them laugh. Now, when they look back, they are surprised to find that he once said such a heartfelt word.
I was silly when I was a child, looking forward to growing up. Now, have you asked yourself countless times-
The road of life, how so difficult.
However, the hardships of life actually began in the mother's belly.
In this life, people's health is the greatest, and it is extremely lucky to live safely to the old age, because you never know whether there will be diseases or accidents coming to you in the next second.
However, naked flame is easier to hide than naked flame, and the physical problems are unpredictable. Others are talking about it. This is the most poisonous medicine.
Man is the smartest and most realistic creature in the world. There are so many people who hate socializing now, either they see through people or they suffer.
The more people you know, the more frightening it is:
Hello, someone is jealous of you;
You are not good, and some people look down on you;
You have strong ability, and someone throws cold water on you;
If you are honest, someone will cheat you;
If you are smarter, others will call you treacherous;
You are taciturn, some people say you are arrogant, others say you pretend. ...
No matter what you do, there will always be people who say you are not satisfied. Even if you have always been kind to a person, in the future, as long as you don't satisfy him a little, his malice towards you will ebb and flow, and his gratitude will gradually offset.
In the era of great pressure, adults themselves are already very tired, and people can only watch and walk with ulterior motives.
As a woman in a new era, Ge Ling has a strong personality and independent thinking. I deeply agree with what she said.
In fact, this sentence is easily associated with women's rights.
Feminism was originally intended to protect women's equal rights and interests, but I don't know when it began to become a "fist". Many people rely on their female status to demand more privileges.
This is an open era. While safeguarding rights, independence and self-improvement may be more important. Only by being awesome can we truly "turn over".
This applies to anyone.
Do you just like to hear people praise you?
If so, maybe it's time to reflect.
There is an old saying in China that goes well-
Good medicine tastes bitter and is good for illness, but advice when most unpleasant is good for action.
But unfortunately, most of us prefer compliments and flattery from others. When others say something unpleasant, they feel uncomfortable.
Sometimes, good words are not necessarily true, and bad words are not necessarily false.
What people are most afraid of is "gone with the wind". People who can only say good things may be the people we should stay away from most.
Have you ever been dressed by your parents?
With the rapid development of the times, it is inevitable that there will be conceptual differences between the two generations, just like Ge Ling and Niu Jie.
Wearing lipstick is called heavy makeup, and painting pink eye shadow is called eye swelling. Basically, every girl has experienced it.
Not only parents, but also in sexual relations.
A popular saying in recent years is: I like plain girls.
However, whether it is plain face or makeup, the purpose of girls is never to please others. Make-up is to make yourself happy and look good.
Comfort is enough. Some people just listen to them.
Appearance is up to you, and so is life.
Going to bars to relax, singing in karaoke, eating out and traveling are all your own business, as long as you can afford it and live comfortably.
There is no need to change your lifestyle because of a word from others.
Even after 20 years, The Story of the Editorial Department's discussion on love, marriage, life and humanity is still ironic.
In addition to these, there are many golden sentences, each of which is quite forward-looking-
For example, about art
Every sentence about the way to treat relatives and strangers comes to our hearts.
About the relationship with colleagues, the play is also very realistic.
How long has it been since there was such a domestic drama? Let me tell you the truth.
Today, 28 years later, the reason why this drama is still remembered may be because of these sharp lines.
In that small editing room, we saw all aspects of life, and only after laughing did we know that this was life …