Children's development and healthy growth need a good social environment. Community is a small social environment in which children live, which is closely related to their growth. Education in nurseries and kindergartens is of course very important, but the family environment and the social environment in the neighborhood and surrounding areas can not be ignored. The educational attitude and upbringing of adults and elders, the words and deeds and mental outlook of neighborhood and community members will directly or imperceptibly affect children. Family is the cell of social life and the starting point for children to get in touch with society and receive socialized education. In China's cities, the education of the only child has become one of the important topics facing the society today. On the one hand, although young parents have a relatively high level of education, they lack the basic knowledge and skills of scientific parenting. They are often helpless about the care and education of preschool children, or act blindly, or dominate and control the development direction of children by their own will. On the other hand, although the elderly have some experience in raising children, they are faced with the family? Little sun? 、? Little emperor? However, they will indulge, overprotect and spoil in every way, so there are more families who indulge, protect, spoil and be strict, and the inconsistency, contradiction and one-sidedness in education are prominent. All these have affected the quality of preschool family education and weakened the educational effect of kindergartens to some extent. In order to improve the quality of the next generation, make children develop healthily and harmoniously, and become qualified talents needed by the future society, we must pay full attention to the family education of preschool children, improve the educational quality of parents, and fully tap the potential and resources of family education. Urban community is a local community where people live and live in concentrated areas. It can be a very effective force to widely publicize and guide the implementation of correct family education. At the same time, society also has an important responsibility to optimize the educational environment. Neighborhood and regional social environment need to be constantly improved to facilitate the healthy growth of children. Beautiful, neat and pleasing streets and alleys in the community, people's civilized and cultured words and deeds, good moral outlook, friendly neighborhood communication, healthy and beneficial contents and guidance of newspapers, movies and television, and care, support and help from all walks of life for children will all form a good community atmosphere and educational environment, which will deeply affect children's development.