Zhou Fan
After listening to Teacher Guo's How to Establish a Scholarly Family, I was suddenly enlightened. Although I am only a college student now, from now on, it is time to reflect on myself and study hard. For myself, for cultivating the younger generation, for creating a scholarly family. It can be said that I am happy after listening to this lecture. At least from now on, I am studying, learning how to establish a scholarly family. As the younger generation, we have a great responsibility to establish a scholarly family, not only to lay a good foundation for the next generation, but also to have constructive exchanges with the previous generation.
What is a scholarly family? In fact, I think the correct explanation of "scholarly family" should be the juxtaposition of "book" and "fragrance". Since ancient times, there must be "incense" in the home of scholars. You must burn incense when reading, and the elegant thing in your spare time is to burn incense. In China, the inheritance of children is called incense inheritance. There is a custom in Hainan that an agarwood tree will be planted in our yard. When the brothers are separated, the agarwood tree will be cut down and divided into sections according to the number of brothers, and everyone will get a section as a symbol of incense inheritance. It not only means the essence of incense, but also means the inheritance of the spiritual significance of this family. Scholarly family is not only a compliment, but also a cultural heritage. How lucky and unfortunate it is to be a modern person; Fortunately, we grew up in this place with unprecedented prosperity, abundant materials and stable country; Unfortunately, due to cultural dating, people's mainstream values are lost, their beliefs are vague, and they lack an unbalanced era of elegant cultural accomplishment. Especially in this era of information flooding, too much information is easier to get lost than not enough information. These all affect each of us from time to time.
What role do parents play in creating a scholarly family? How to train our children and grandchildren has become the primary problem faced by every family and parent in China. As the saying goes, "the dragon gives birth to the dragon, the phoenix gives birth to the phoenix, and the mouse's child can make holes." It can be seen how much influence the family environment has on a person's growth. It is the most important way for children to learn. Parents' behaviors, values and hobbies have a great influence on their children. Purifying, beautifying and knowledgeable family environment is of great benefit to children's edification. Creating a good learning environment for children is very important for their growth. A family that does not study is a family with mental retardation. Those families with rich material life, high-grade modern appliances and spacious and bright rooms, but no books at home and no desire to read, are hardly civilized, let alone happy, warm and happy. On the other hand, this family may be just well-fed or relatively poor, but the reading atmosphere in the family is rich. Children and parents enjoy reading, and there are books to read at home, even a certain number of books, so the family is spiritually enriched and harmonious, thus full of warmth, tranquility, happiness and joy. Born in such a family, children will never feel vulgar, empty and bored, and it is difficult to be tempted by modern media such as computers and television.
It can be said that "scholarly family" is not necessarily rich, but it must be rich. Even the poor can create a "scholarly family" for their children. When you realize the importance of family education and reading, whether you are a "literate person" or a person who loves reading, you should provide a good reading environment for your children. Some people say that "all educational problems are reading problems", which is absolutely true. Children who don't read will be worse than those who love reading. Even if there is no gap in temporary achievements, with the growth of age, there will be great differences in horizons and interests.
To create an atmosphere for cultivating family reading, we must first have books and a certain number of books. Therefore, every family should squeeze out some money to buy some books. As long as there are books, the atmosphere of reading can be created and cultivated. Every family should open up a place for their children to study. The room is not big, which can create a quiet reading corner for children: away from TV, a desk, a chair and a desk lamp with soft light. When you walk into that corner, you can smell the book, raise your hand to touch your beloved book, and feel the pride and happiness brought by the collection. In the future, I will do this. Perhaps, this can also be said to be an idea of creating an atmosphere for my future children.
Reading makes people noble, reading makes people wise, and reading keeps people away from ignorance and barbarism and towards civilization. No matter how tired you are, you should study, no matter how busy you are at work, no matter how much you earn, no matter how crowded your residence is, you should collect books. Only when parents fall in love with reading can children get close to books. If our generation is not a "scholarly family" child, please let our next generation let books lead the way and enjoy a tour of Wan Li. Calling on all parents is also advice for future parents.