Instead, we should patiently explain and encourage children and tell them that kindergarten is not terrible. There are many children of the same age who bravely go to kindergarten and play games with teachers happily. I believe that their children can gradually eliminate their fear of strangers in kindergarten.
Communicate with kindergarten teachers more and let children get used to the existence of kindergarten teachers. Parents should invite kindergarten teachers to be guests at home, so that teachers and children can have more contact and communication, so that children can get used to the existence of teachers and like them. Therefore, children will not be so afraid when they enter the strange place of kindergarten and see the familiar kindergarten teachers, and then the kindergarten teachers will gradually guide and help the children to establish friendship and playmates with other children in kindergarten.
Children regard kindergarten as another home, not a completely strange place. Of course, in addition to being familiar with kindergarten teachers in advance, parents can also take their children to the kindergarten in advance to feel the atmosphere of the kindergarten and understand the strange environment of the kindergarten. Thereby eliminating children's strangeness and fear of kindergarten.
Parents should cultivate their children's independent ability from an early age, not an almost one-step education. Although the children in kindergarten are still very young, it is necessary for parents to educate their children to get used to the existence of strangers and have the courage to contact strangers. Of course, under this premise, children should be educated to have enough vigilance and awareness to avoid unsafe accidents. When parents pay attention to cultivating the ability to communicate with their children independently, children can remain vigilant in any strange place, but they can't be completely afraid. When they meet strange people and things, they can have their own handling methods and principles, which will not cause separation anxiety.
Of course, there is another reason why children don't want to go to kindergarten, that is, children are loved and unrestrained by their elders at home. When they enter kindergarten, they should get used to the rules of kindergarten, not only to eat on time, but also to sleep on time. Sometimes I have to do activities with my friends and have an argument with them. Children will naturally resist going to kindergarten. At this time, parents need to prescribe the right medicine.
Parents should cultivate their children's relatively regular schedules. Without rules, Fiona Fang cannot be achieved. Parents should not refuse to set rules for their children and cultivate the habit of self-discipline on the pretext that their children are still young. You should not blindly spoil your child and let him become a bully. Instead, we should teach our children by ourselves, cultivate their good habits of eating and resting on time, and be very polite to others. In this way, children can naturally be liked by teachers and children when they arrive at kindergarten.
When a child has established a certain friendship in kindergarten, parents should communicate and guide more to help the child like kindergarten and kindergarten friends more. In other words, whether at home or at home, parents should maintain a unified way of educating their children and not be unbalanced, otherwise it will be very unfavorable to the cultivation of children's character.
Parents should give their children more inspiration and guidance and set an example for them. When children resist going to kindergarten, parents can choose to find a role model for their children. For example, children's cousins, parents told their children's cousins can go to kindergarten independently, which is great. I believe my children can do it, too.
When children go to kindergarten, parents should show relief and happiness, and even encourage their children's small wishes. And make an appropriate commitment that as long as the children behave well in kindergarten, parents can buy their favorite toys for their children. And such an inductive method is also essential.
In a word, when a baby is born and enters kindergarten, it is the first step to leave his parents. When children don't want to go to kindergarten, parents should not be used to it, but should cultivate their independent ability and practical ability to adapt to strange environment in time. If the child cares and dotes blindly, it will be more difficult for parents to deal with it when the child goes to primary school.