Every parent only finds out that there may be problems in his education after his children have problems. Most of the children's problems are that their parents are too strict and unclear, or the rules are unclear, and the children are not sensible, which eventually leads to the failure of education. Discipline is the key to being a parent. In the process of educating children, we should do a good job of "management" and "teaching". Management is not only to ensure that children are healthy and not sick, but also to take good care of children and control their incorrect behavior. Teaching is to tell children how to do the right thing. Discipline is to let children get the freedom they deserve according to reasonable rules. A parent with good discipline often responds quickly. Children behave well and do the right thing. Parents give timely support, encouragement and praise, so that children can feel affirmation and care in time.

Parents know that not every child will be obedient. In the face of disobedient children, it is one of the more effective methods to suspend some behaviors of children. This can force children to accept interaction and communication with their parents. At this time, sending messages to children will be more efficient and have the most obvious impact. This method is especially suitable for children around 3 years old. The time to stop children's behavior should not be too long, and it is best to control it within 10 second. Children of this age have the problem of forgetfulness. They are easily attracted by other things, forget what just happened, and can't establish a causal connection between your truth and what just happened. Mom can pause for a few seconds, then ask questions, induce children to recall what just happened, and tell them the behavior and results, so that education will be effective.

In the process of discipline, parents should always pay attention to their children's emotional changes and abnormal behaviors. If the way of discipline puts pressure on children, children are likely to cry or attack themselves. In order to avoid these adverse reactions, parents can calm down and let their children calm down first, and then communicate with their children through communication. A good parent should know how to examine his own methods and attitudes and constantly correct them. When educating children, good parents should constantly adjust their educational methods.

Parents are harsh and unreasonable, and the rules formulated by parents for their children are not clear and have no guiding significance. Parents disagree. Parents are not clear about their children's development, demanding too much and sensitive to their children's reactions. Most wrong parents are nagging Tang Priest. Parents' demands are beyond their children's age, but the children don't understand. Neglect children's health. Neglect children's psychological problems.