As parents, don't always spoil your children too much. It is normal to strictly stop some inappropriate behaviors and punish them when children are young. Now, as parents, this generation is very busy, and often ignores the children's own education.
When you are young, you should instill the correct three views in your children, and don't completely shirk education to the school. In fact, I think childhood education should be carried out in many ways. The school pays attention to the education of quality and knowledge, but what parents convey at home is the formation of moral character.
Sometimes children make mistakes and parents don't stop them at the first time. Even when the third party acts excessively, parents even stand on the child's side and shirk all responsibilities by "don't tell the child common sense", which is completely irresponsible.
There is an old saying in China called "Teach your son to his face, but teach his wife behind his back", which I think is very reasonable. Sometimes a child's personality is formed subconsciously, just some inappropriate behaviors passed on by parents. As the saying goes, being a strict parent is like killing a child. I believe that when your child grows up, he will understand the good intentions of his parents.
We must also keep our children at a certain distance from their grandparents, because they only spoil their children. Don't let children live with themselves for a long time, especially before the age of 10.