The first time I heard this line, I said it seriously after Mr. Murong ate twenty bowls of noodles. Beautiful as lightning, I took him to the car in my hometown Wushan.
I was surprised to see this place and embarrassed to be with my friends.
This, this, this, who does not know what Wushan means.
This, this, this, and this? !
After much consideration, I saw Wow Mei interviewing the creative team and chose Chongqing because of Wushan. ...
Isn't this a little hasty? We are all adults. ...
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Mei Ru, who was 12 years old at that time, was asked by the teacher to read a diary in public.
The teacher scolded, and when they were still in love, they went to Wushan together. What on earth is this written? In his early years, his mind was full of yellow waste. ...
I suddenly had a different idea.
Are we adults thinking too much?
Now think about it, at that time 12-year-old beauty may have imagined Wushan in her hometown, not "Wushan" as we adults imagined.
Ashamed, I really don't know who is full of yellow waste.
The head teacher just takes it for granted and labels it as unhealthy indiscriminately.
The clasp is simple, but it is difficult to take off.
Those strange eyes are hard to ignore, and those naughty laughter linger in my ears, as beautiful as being strangled by a nightmare and never waking up.
12 later, Meiru tried her best to get rid of this hat and tried to be a "mentally healthy" person.
12 years later, Thoreau, the mother fetus, and Meiru, who is sensible and capable, are worried about their emotional problems and urge to find a partner.
Everyone knows love by default, but in fact we just pretend to understand that old wounds, insecurities and instinctive fears will always be taken away.
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Since childhood, we have taken so many classes, none of which is about gender.
We are taught to like a person when we are ignorant, and it is shameful to have sexual fantasies.
There is no distinction between men and women in kindergarten, they are all buddies.
After primary school, we gradually understand that men and women are different, at least the way to go to the toilet is different. Boys and girls gradually began to keep their distance and only played with the same sex. I feel a little uncomfortable being with the opposite sex occasionally.
Later, when you grow up, the seeds of love, there will be some excitement between boys and girls. Parents and teachers try their best to prevent puppy love by obstructing all kinds of education.
Even if it is really puppy love, it is always sneaking around, hiding from parents and teachers.
No one has taught us what it feels like to have a good impression on the opposite sex, and what to do is right.
Adults are always so dictatorial, talking endlessly about the dangers of puppy love, and through various means or monitoring or talking, we should nip that throb in the bud.
We can only find out for ourselves. From TV plays and movies, we gradually understand what this is all about.
But this sense of shame has always existed in our hearts.
There is always a voice reminding us that this is wrong.
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I think we all asked adults this question when we were young: Where am I from?
I don't know how many children get answers from trash cans, from under bridges, and even by phone. ...
This answer may have puzzled us for a long time and aroused doubts.
But no matter how entangled, there is only one answer.
Until later, when I grew up, I understood.
When you have children, you are so shy about your children.
Then why not tell the truth?
Think about it, if you tell the truth, the following dialogue will appear.
Child: Mom, where am I from?
Me: You were conceived by your mother in October.
The child has been asking questions, so how did you get pregnant with me?
Me: emmm, mom and dad share a bed, and then there will be you.
Child: Can you get pregnant in the same bed? How is this done? We both sleep in the same bed every day. Why don't I have any brothers or sisters?
Me: ... this, this, one or two words are unclear. Say something else.
Because if we keep talking, it's just ...
Ahem.
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Junior high school biology textbooks are the first structured place for men and women.
At that time, everyone knew the age more or less.
Boys start to laugh when they see pictures, and girls often blush and can't speak.
Teachers also tend to avoid it. In this part, students should read the textbooks by themselves. There is nothing to talk about.
We don't know what happened.
There is a trace of shame in curiosity.
Curiosity is understandable, but why be ashamed?
We don't know. I only know that this is taboo, and taboo is to be shameful.
It seems that it is pure and healthy to be too embarrassed to look.
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If we hadn't been accused of being full of yellow trash in public like Meiru, we would have gradually learned about the relationship between the sexes, learned to get along with the opposite sex, and got married and had children when we were old. That's how it happened.
However, if you cast a shadow over a beautiful woman's tender and innocent heart, maybe she/he will close her heart from now on, keep a distance from the opposite sex and lose the ability to love forever.
When you get along with the opposite sex, it becomes an emotional problem to be uncomfortable, calm and indifferent, to keep people away, and to drag and drop.
At this time, those who have been anxious to keep you from puppy love will also be anxious to help you find someone.
But you can't love a person normally, and you can't accept a person's goodness naturally.
And if you can't learn to love, you will only grow old, not grow up.
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I think this is ridiculous.
Sex is evil.
But mothers are great, and giving birth to children is glorious and should be encouraged.
But without sex, where do children come from?
Is it because evil behavior will produce good results?
I don't understand.
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I think education in this field has always been lacking.
Just hiding, just prevaricating, just lying.
But blocking is better than dredging. At that age, the more you plan ahead, the more rebellious your children will be.
If something happens at that age, it will be a heavy blow to both children, especially girls.
If we don't have a little knowledge of physical health and a little normal and healthy education on gender relations, we may lack the ability to love.
After all, it needs to be learned. It's not like a gift from an adult. You get it from an adult.
There is nothing to be ashamed of.
Because that's how humans reproduce.
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When the feelings are strong, we will go to Wushan together.
I hope this sentence is just a beautiful love story and a beautiful fantasy, not a mark of sin, not a proof of yellow.