Many parents don't know how to educate their children. They only know how to make them eat and dress like pets, but they don't know how to shape their children's character and habits. In fact, educating children is very simple. As long as we cultivate children's self-confidence, self-esteem, self-love and self-improvement, it is a successful education.

Develop self-confidence

Don't belittle, encourage more, don't always compare him with others, let the children compare with themselves, and develop life attitudes and habits that surpass themselves rather than others. Self-confidence but not arrogance, let children know that in the face of great natural laws, people's ability is limited.

Cultivate self-esteem

Don't vent your faults on children, and don't always blame the failure of marriage and family career on children. "If it weren't for you, I would have ..." to increase children's self-esteem and guilt. Always talk to children in a commanding tone, don't be sarcastic, and don't use words such as "You are so stupid", "You are a fool", "I've never seen you so stupid" and "How did this happen to you". Don't physically punish children.

Cultivate self-love

Make children develop the habit of independent thinking and decision-making, know how to cooperate with others, don't casually agree with others, respect others and don't flatter anyone.

Cultivate self-improvement

Take surpassing yourself as the goal, constantly improve yourself, constantly observe the changes of the times after reaching the peak, and avoid those factors that make you successful becoming the source of failure. Let the children know that man proposes and God disposes. What people should do is to try their best to seek and do things, and not to be too demanding of the results.