This accident also gave me a deeper understanding of "like"
I won't repeat the story inside. Here, I will focus on the biological father of the owner "Charlie" and the way she accompanied her and the influence on her, which is also the place that touched me the most.
Charlie's biological father should be a car modification enthusiast. Influenced by his father, Charlie gradually became interested in car modification and maintenance. It is also because of their common hobby and long-term companionship that Charlie planted the seeds of a good family education when he was young. Unfortunately, Charlie's biological father suddenly died of a heart attack. Shortly after her father died, her mother found her a "body double"-a stepfather. But because her biological father had such a great influence on her, she couldn't get out of the pain for a long time. What is more painful is to bear the pressure deeply expected by her family-to find ways to speed up her return to normal life. Therefore, neither her brother, stepfather nor even her biological mother can understand her in such a short time.
Charlie's turning point is because of the appearance of "Bumblebee", which makes the whole family "involved" in Charlie's real life. It is precisely because of this "unexpected" moment that the whole family has a chance to get to know the real Charlie again, and it also gives her a better chance to "know" her family. Finally, family relations have been promoted to a higher level-mutual understanding and happiness.
10-year-old daughter entered the fourth grade, to be exact, after having a younger brother four years ago, her personality seems to have taken a big turn of 180-the relationship with her younger brother is almost you and me, yelling is commonplace, and fighting also happens from time to time; Because she often loses her temper, we occasionally lose our temper with her when we reason with her fruitlessly. In this way, our relationship with her gradually cooled down. To this end, I sometimes feel very annoyed at my performance in this regard.
I know very well that at this age, she has less and less in common with us. Most of the time, she would rather watch Tik Tok than talk to us more. On weekdays, she goes to school during the day and does her homework late at night; On weekends, she prefers to play with her classmates. We can spend less and less time together!
Coincidentally, my daughter sometimes wants me to accompany her to do her homework and practice the piano, but I often refuse her request on the grounds of "busy career". This invisibly made her hurt heart more serious.
My daughter, like "Charlie", is suffering from problems such as not being understood, low quality of companionship, and less companionship time. Relatively speaking, her mother's company will be much more than mine, but it still cannot fundamentally change the status quo. The solution is to start from her hobbies and create high-quality companionship! Just like Charlie's real father's car lab.
My daughter is actually a child with good hands-on ability. Look at the "little clay figurine" she made in more than 20 minutes. I have not been bad at hands since I was a child-I can make slingshots and muskets since I was a child, and I have also repaired various cars (bicycles, tractors and cars) with my father. This should be a good starting point.
Considering that my daughter likes "crystal mud" especially recently, I am familiar with this kind of material myself (one of my work directions). You can plan a small handicraft studio first. I am responsible for making and purchasing all kinds of creative materials, while my daughter gives full play to her own advantages-creating works. This may have the following three meanings:
Well, it means a lot, and the rest is action. June 65438+10 completed the scheme design and started the "hands-on" experiment of 1.0 version.