1, the influence of parental rearing patterns on children
Let parents know the influence of different parenting styles on their children and the negative influence of unsafe attachment mode on their physical and mental health, so as to pay attention to their own problems.
Parental rearing patterns have a great influence on children. Authoritarian children can lead to children's strong control, lack of love, timidity and irritability. Indifferent parents have problems with parenting styles and attitudes. He let the children go their own way.
2. Parents' emotional self-management
Let parents learn to perceive and manage their emotions, and don't vent negative emotions on their children, which will become a source of physical and mental stress for children. Parents managing their emotions well can set a good example for their children, which is conducive to their self-management, self-discipline and overall mental health.
Emotional management of parents' self is the top priority of active family education. First of all, we should face up to our emotions; Secondly, when your child's behavior really makes you angry, you can do something that makes your child "unexpected"; Third, parents should give themselves some time to vent.
Step 3 learn to listen
Many parents report that their children are rebellious and can't communicate. Parents must learn to listen before they can learn to communicate. In the process of listening, parents should keep calm and not get emotional. Avoid interrupting your child, even if the first few words mean nothing to you.
4. Question ownership and my information
Many parents can't tell which things are the responsibility of children and which are the responsibility of parents because of unclear boundaries. Knowing the ownership of the problem can return the child's problem to the child.
The role of parents' growth camp training;
1, family guidance, facing confusion
Parents participate in diversified family education guidance activities. In the form of annual moral education meeting, parents' school, and on-site courses, different types of "parents' salons" are set up to discuss problems, study countermeasures, strengthen exchanges, and improve the pertinence and effectiveness of family education guidance on sensitive issues in children's development regularly or irregularly.
2, participate in activities, parent-child experience
In various important activities, such as parents' open day, English carnival, etc., parents and children experience life together, starting with raising the flag in morning exercises, having classes together, playing games together and having dinner together. Not only let parents know about their children's learning situation, but also enhance the feelings between parents and children.
3. Pay attention to recessive education.
Parents can be made aware of the great influence of family education in the process of children's growth, thus changing from spontaneous and instinctive education to conscious and purposeful education, and parents' sense of responsibility as educators has been enhanced. In the past, many parents only paid attention to their children's cultural knowledge learning. Now most parents can strengthen their children's moral education and attach importance to implicit education.