1, give children enough attention.
Children need a lot of care. Parents should accompany them, show interest in their activities, prevent their children from developing bad habits in time, and promote their progress. However, parents don't just play with their children; They should talk to the children. They can choose a topic for discussion every day.
2. Provide a guiding atmosphere.
Children need to be in an environment conducive to their growth. They need a friendly and open environment to shine. If there are negative factors such as tension between children and parents, it will affect children and make them anxious. In addition, parents should prepare an independent space for their children so that they can stay away from TV and concentrate on their studies.
3. Encourage children more.
Parents should realize that encouraging their children can work miracles. If children don't work hard and struggle, parents should not simply and rudely condemn them. Such condemnation can only kill their self-confidence.
Parents' misunderstandings about children's education are:
1. Children praise or criticize excessively. Proper praise helps children to build up their self-confidence, but in real life, some parents influenced by the theory of happy education often like to praise their children unprincipled. As a result, children lack self-awareness, overestimate the evaluation of others, and hope that every little thing they do can be praised, otherwise they will refuse to do it.
2. Overprotection and blind strangulation of children. Some parents always subjectively deny their children's words and deeds, always like to compare other people's children with themselves, and even demand their own children with too high standards. In the long run, children's enthusiasm and confidence will be killed blindly, making them feel incompetent, and their self-esteem and self-confidence will be ruthlessly destroyed.
3. Parents are too democratic. Many parents attach great importance to "democratic" management in family education. No matter big or small, I hope to get the recognition of my children. As a result, the child didn't learn the truth and was spoiled first. The reason is that children (especially young people) lack enough experience and judgment, and they need to rely on the guidance of their parents in many aspects of life.