1. Children with particularly strong self-esteem For children with particularly strong self-esteem, they are generally very competitive and love face, and they are prone to depression when encountering setbacks. At this time, if parents educate their children about setbacks, don't complain and criticize too much. Instead, we should give children more encouragement and let them see hope.
2. Children with inferiority complex
For children with low self-esteem, they are very lacking in self-confidence and think that they are incompetent. If they encounter setbacks, their sense of inferiority will be more serious. At this time, parents should not blame too much, but must comfort their children, let them realize their strengths and advantages, create opportunities for their children to succeed, increase their self-confidence and help them tide over the difficulties.
3. A child with strong ability When a child with strong ability encounters setbacks, parents should not directly tell the child what to do, but should conduct heuristic guidance, let the child find the problem himself, let the child solve the problem himself, and give the child enough space and confidence.
In this way, children will have their own thinking and understanding of setbacks and difficulties, which is conducive to improving their ability to withstand setbacks.
4. Children with weak abilities For children with weak abilities, they may lack confidence in the face of setbacks, or they may be at a loss and don't know how to solve them. At this time, parents should help their children to set realistic goals, from easy to difficult, from low to high, so that children can solve difficulties step by step, see their own progress, and gradually form the ability to overcome difficulties and setbacks.
How should parents educate their children to face setbacks? 1. Let children correctly understand setbacks and don't have fear. Everyone will encounter setbacks in life. First of all, let children know that frustration is not a stumbling block in life, but a good opportunity to learn.
2. When children face setbacks, we should give them affirmation in time, help them solve their pain, build up confidence and enhance their ability to face setbacks.
3. Parents can remind them in time, share their experiences, encourage their children and enhance their empathy.
4. Parents should reflect on themselves, whether the requirements for their children are too high, which leads to the children's heavy gain and loss, and they will have fear in the face of setbacks, so they should help their children to resolve this emotion in time.
In the process of growing up, we will inevitably encounter difficulties and setbacks. Parents should educate their children about setbacks according to their different personality characteristics, with the ultimate goal of enabling them to build confidence, overcome difficulties and solve problems by themselves.