First, train children to be good people and citizens. When children become good people and citizens, parents don't have to worry about their children anymore. For society, so much the better. If children don't become excellent people and citizens, they will do harm to others and society, and they will also do harm to themselves. That is not only a problem that parents are worried about, but also more worried than raising children, which will make parents lose face;

The second is to cultivate children into people who are not self-centered. Children are not self-centered, but will make their families happy and harmonious. Generally, many problems in a family, like cats and dogs, are related to one or both sides being self-centered. If one party in the family is self-centered, it is often one party who suffers indignities and the other party who makes trouble without reason. If both sides are self-centered, then the contradiction of this family is irreconcilable, and the ending is the disintegration of the family. The disintegration of children's families is also a kind of pain for parents.

Third, let children have a meaningful childhood. People who have had a meaningful childhood will only let their children have a meaningful childhood and will not force them with incorrect family education. Otherwise, people who have never had a meaningful childhood will either deprive their children of their childhood or be angry with themselves because they are angry with their children. Look at the reality, because generations have never had a meaningful childhood, so children will not have a real childhood, which not only hurts children, but also makes them angry because they can't educate correctly.