1. Introduction: Briefly introduce the importance of family education and its role in children's growth and development, and explain why there are puzzles and challenges.

2. List puzzles: List common puzzles in family education, such as how parents balance strictness and tolerance, how to cultivate children's self-discipline ability, and how to establish good communication and close relationship with children.

3. Analyze puzzles: analyze each puzzle and explain the reasons and possible effects of the puzzle. You can refer to expert opinions, research results or actual cases to further explain the reasons behind the confusion and the main points that need attention.

4. Provide suggestions: According to each puzzle, provide some practical suggestions and solutions. These suggestions can be based on research results, expert opinions or successful family education practices. Suggestions can include how to cultivate communication skills, establish rules and boundaries, encourage autonomous learning, and effectively reward and praise.

5. Summary: Summarize the puzzles and solutions provided, and emphasize that family education is a process of continuous learning and growth, which requires parents to constantly adjust their methods and interact with their children to help them grow up healthily.

Finally, parents can be encouraged to seek professional help, such as cooperating with educational experts or family education institutions to get more specific and personalized guidance and support.

Data expansion:

1. Children's learning problems: Parents care about their children's academic performance, learning methods and academic planning, including how to improve their learning motivation and learning effect.

2. Behavior management problems: Parents may encounter children's bad behaviors, poor self-control ability, and disobey rules and disciplines, and need to know how to guide and manage their children's behaviors correctly.

3. Emotional management: Children may have emotional fluctuations, emotional out of control or emotional depression during their growth. Parents want to know how to help their children manage their emotions and establish a positive emotional attitude.

4. Communication problems: There may be communication barriers between parents and children, such as improper communication methods and insufficient understanding. Parents want to know how to improve communication with their children and establish a good parent-child relationship.

5. Social problems: Children may encounter problems such as adaptation difficulties and interpersonal tension when getting along with their peers. Parents hope to get relevant guidance and help to promote their children's social development.

6. Values and personality cultivation: Parents pay attention to the formation of children's values, personality cultivation and moral education, hoping to know how to guide their children's correct values and healthy personality development.