When it comes to "role models" of parents, a series of words or sentences will pop up in my mind: "imperceptibly", "deeply impressed", "quietly moistened things", "the role of role models is endless", "like father, like son" and "it is better to put on a show than to scream".
Yes, this can illustrate the importance of parents' "role models". Then why should I say that parents' "role models" are the best in family education?
First, the "role model" of parents has its long-term nature. Research on early education shows that babies begin to learn from their parents when they land, which is an innate ability. This is easy to understand, not only for people, but also for all animals. Whether intentionally or unintentionally, the parents' "teacher" has since settled.
There is a saying in the countryside that "I will never grow up until I die", which means that no matter how old my child is, parents are always worried. I think it's not just worrying, it's still affecting. As long as they are alive, "role models" have more or less effects on children, intentionally or unintentionally.
From the above two aspects, we can see that for decades, two generations have been concentrated in the long river of life, and the "role model" of their parents has always existed.
Second, parents' "role models" are instructive. As we all know, parents are children's first teachers, so their role as "role models" is often preconceived. Parents' feelings, attitudes and values are the basis for the formation of children's "three views"
At present, when it comes to family education, people often think of learning; When it comes to learning, the first thing that comes to mind is often children's homework and academic performance. In fact, this is a branch of family education. Let's talk about this research. If parents think that learning is useless in their bones, will children have the motivation to learn?
There is also a very interesting saying in the countryside, "the water in the front yard does not flow into the backyard", which means that one generation follows the practice of the previous generation and is passed down from generation to generation. Every generation's behavior will have the shadow of the previous generation. For example, if parents are not filial to their parents, there will be children with a heart of stone.
The objects of family education are different, and the applicable methods are different, but family education still has its laws to follow. I hope my point of view can inspire everyone.