Children's growth is deeply influenced by parents and people around them. A positive and optimistic parent will subconsciously convey this positive and optimistic mood to his children when educating them. A pair of negative and pessimistic parents who don't work hard will subconsciously pass on this negative and pessimistic mood to their children when educating them. If everyone around you is negative and pessimistic, children will not be able to get rid of this emotion in the long run, thus forming a negative, pessimistic and decadent character.

Personally, to cultivate children's positive, optimistic and hard-working personality, parents should first spend more time with their children and give them enough care during their growth. Most children with parents are lively and cheerful. They will act coquettish in front of you and tell you what they met at school. He will tell you what he thinks, and children without parents will become inferior, timid and afraid to say what they really think, which will form in the long run.

Secondly, parents are positive and optimistic. Both parents live in harmony and there are no major family conflicts. Parents can be optimistic when things happen. For example, they took their children shopping and found that their mobile phones were stolen. When they thought about it, it turned out that it was stolen on the way. At this time, if parents are angry and complain every day, children will be affected invisibly; If parents only complain at that time, and then they are glad that they just lost their mobile phones and nothing else, children will quickly put things down and think positively.

Finally, if parents have time, they can take their children out for a walk, see more nature and get in touch with people, so that their children will become optimistic. If they stay at home every day and keep away from nature and people, they will study every day. In the long run, they will be depressed. If parents don't find out in time, children can easily become pessimistic and negative.