1. Respect children. The most common reason why children in junior high school rebel is that they can't get the respect of their parents. Many children think that when I go to junior high school, I will grow up and my voice should appear in this home. However, parents often think that their children are too young to tell them anything, including their interest classes. This requires our parents to change their thinking, discuss everything with their children, let them participate in the discussion of some important things, let them feel respected, and let them feel that they are really part of this family, so that they will not resist their parents.

2. Children enter adolescence, generally reaching 13 years old, growing rapidly and showing secondary sexual characteristics. Many children feel that they have grown up and learned a lot, and they want to make their own decisions on some things. And many parents, with their children since childhood, think that children can't do without themselves, and what children do is not reliable. Therefore, they always do every detail in place, hoping that their children will act according to their own wishes, feel that they are good to their children, and even always have an imperative tone. Children generally have no problems when they are young, but they will gradually develop resistance when they grow up, but they are too young to have resistance, or there is no resistance. However, when they grow up, they will be irresistible.

3. The education we usually talk about is actually preaching and reprimanding, but really good communication is based on mutual respect and equality. Therefore, the most important thing is to see the child grow up bit by bit, see the positive side of the child, and affirm good ideas and practices, so that communication will gradually be smooth. The curiosity and desire to explore brought by adolescence can promote the development of adolescent sexual consciousness. How to know love and deal with affection for the opposite sex needs correct guidance. Pay attention to communication-junior two students enter adolescence, are rebellious, communicate less with their parents, and are very resistant to blind preaching. Therefore, during this period, parents must communicate with their children more, understand their psychological changes in time, give their children psychological counseling and guidance of correct concepts in time, and ensure their psychological healthy development.