After reading Family Education, sometimes there will be a lot of feelings after reading something. When we have a deep understanding of something, it is a good choice to write out our feelings, which can improve our written expression ability. The following is a review of family education.
Views on family education 1 1. Parents should set an example and be role models for their children, and schools should actively guide them and make joint efforts.
We believe that to educate children well, we must first set an example. Parents are the best role models for children. Only when they do it themselves will the children follow suit. If you just preach and teach, but you can't be a role model for children, then this kind of education is just a treasure, and the education in it won't work at all. At the same time, school education is equally important, and only the joint efforts of both sides can produce results.
Second, create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop conscious study habits.
My colleague told me that his daughter and niece were admitted to the university in the same year. His experience is to create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop a good habit of self-study. Every night after dinner, he and his wife go out for a walk. After the daughter and niece cleared the table, they went to do their homework.
When they get home, they never watch TV while their children are doing their homework. Each of them took a book to read. After a long time, their children have also developed good habits of work and rest. Daughters and nieces often compare each other to see who studies well and who studies late. Last year's college entrance examination, both children were admitted to their dream university with excellent results.
Third, punish children appropriately, actively guide them and be their good friends.
I remember when my son was a child, he once took money from his family and bought a lot of toys without his parents' consent. When we learned about it, we asked him to return the toy and gave him a good beating. He never made a similar mistake again.
When my son was in the fourth grade, his handwriting was very poor. I asked him to rewrite the words with incorrect strokes 10 times. As a result, we quarreled. The son said that he had tried his best and it would be difficult to change for a while. I admitted my mistake to my son and pointed out that it was wrong for him to hit me. The son also admitted his mistake. Now my son and I sometimes chat like friends, which is quite fun.
Views on Family Education 2 Our child is Xu Kai Wa, a third-grade student of Anjuyuan Primary School in Hefei. Excellent academic performance, published a small paper in the magazine "King of Mathematics". Our parents are often proud of their children. Here, I want to share with you some thoughts and experiences in the process of cultivating children. Please forgive me if there is any mistake.
First, cultivate children's interest in learning and let them "learn happily"
Xu has loved learning since he was a child. Our parents have seen this characteristic of children very well, paying special attention to cultivating children's learning hobbies and protecting them, so that children have always regarded learning as a very happy thing since childhood. Our parents never set learning tasks for their children, but often guide them through games.
For example, using Puke card to calculate 24 points, let children play computer educational game software in the early days, and so on. The most important thing is that whenever a child is found to have made progress in learning and mastered some new knowledge, parents should praise him without stint, enhance his happiness in learning, and guide and cultivate his habit of loving learning.
Second, don't put pressure on children to study, and help them decompress when appropriate.
Children's minds are fragile, and too much pressure may have a negative impact on children and even lose interest in learning. Our parents never put pressure on their children to study, nor did they ask them to get more points in exams. Sometimes he is particularly depressed when he takes or fails in the exam.
At this time, our parents often protect their children, comfort their children, inspire them, help them relieve their pressure, get rid of the shadow of failure quickly, and sum up the reasons for the last failure after a while. We feel that this not only protects children, but also teaches them how to face failure correctly.
Third, cultivate children's habit of conscious learning and autonomous learning.
Parents should not accompany their children when they are studying, so that they can develop the habit of autonomous learning and conscious learning. Every day after school, Xu basically finishes his homework quickly before his parents go home. After children finish their homework, they can watch TV or do other things according to their own wishes. Our parents never interfere. In this way, it not only cultivates children's ability to study consciously and independently, but also develops a good habit of not procrastinating in homework.
Fourth, respect children's hobbies and pay attention to cultivating children's good hobbies.
When Xu was very young, when he saw that other children were learning musical instruments, our parents reported him to learn electronic piano according to their own ideas, but the children were not very interested in learning piano and cried when they practiced. Looking at the sad look of the child, we reflected on our own practices and finally decided to let the child give up learning the piano.
This incident has also been affecting our educational philosophy. We should respect children's hobbies rather than parents' wishes. Parents should pay attention to cultivating children's good hobbies, guide children to experience some activities rather than compulsion, and guide some of his good hobbies, such as learning hobbies, so that children can experience happiness in the process of learning and regard learning as a happy thing.
Fifth, pay attention to praise children's strengths and specialties and enhance their self-confidence.
Children often do not know what advantages and specialties they have. Our parents should be good at inventing children's advantages and specialties, guiding them to play their own advantages and specialties, and enhancing their self-confidence. Like all children, Xu has advantages in some aspects and disadvantages in others. Our parents often pay attention to praise children's advantages and consciously guide them to participate in some projects with their own advantages. On the one hand, give play to children's specialties, and more importantly, cultivate children's self-confidence.
Sixth, pay attention to communication with children.
We often communicate with children on an equal footing, encourage them to express their feelings and emotions, understand their emotions, and adopt an open and inclusive attitude towards everything they say. We sometimes let them take part in some adult activities. In the process of communication, not only can we grasp the children's dynamics, but more importantly, we can arouse the children's pride and sense of responsibility as a man through equal dialogue.
Reflections on "Family Education" III. Everything is based on morality, and education itself is a norm of moral behavior. The education problem of students is not only the school's, but also the family's. Family is the first teacher of children and also the teacher of family education. It is through family education that parents impart good moral character, rich knowledge and experience to their children. For the future of the children. Lay a good foundation for the road of life. In my opinion, the key to doing a good job in family education should be to "prescribe the right medicine" according to the characteristics of children.
Children are like flowers in spring, innocent, lively and lovely, and have poor ability to distinguish right from wrong. At the same time, they are curious, receptive and imitative. Therefore, parents should never use simple and rude methods when educating their children. We should be good at guiding, try our best to stimulate their interest and change passive learning into active learning. They should mainly do the following work:
First, cultivate children's good study habits.
Ye Shengtao said: "Education is the formation of habits." "All good attitudes and good methods should become habits. Only when proficiency becomes a habit can we express a good attitude at any time and place, and apply good methods at any time and place, as if by instinct, we can never use them all our lives. " Children's concentration time is short, so they must improve their learning efficiency in peacetime.
For example, when writing homework, you should finish the homework assigned by the teacher within the specified time, and you can't play while doing it; Check your homework and be responsible for yourself. Parents must not be teachers. Parents must pay attention to the analysis of the reasons for the wrong questions, not just staring at the scores. This makes children feel that learning is their own business, and good study habits can get twice the result with half the effort.
Second, pay attention to the ways and means of communicating with children.
As parents, we should put down our airs, make friends with children, regard children as independent subjects, communicate with children as low as possible, use less imperative tone and use more negotiating language. Use "we" more than "you should", even if it is criticism, let your child feel your love for him.
Because children's hearts are very fragile, if parents often give their children classes, they will inevitably have a sense of fear and disgust. If they dare not approach you, they will often have rebellious psychology. Not only do they not like what you say, but they are afraid to go to school.
Third, parents should pay attention to their words and deeds.
As parents, we should pay special attention to our image. Parents should behave in a civilized way in front of our children. Because parents are role models for children, parents' words and deeds have a subtle influence on children and have a far-reaching impact on their growth. Of course, we must have great endurance and be patient with children.
Don't use your child as a vent bucket when you encounter troubles at work. As parents, you can't lose your temper. You can only take pains to persuade education. At most, you can only euphemistically say "I'm really angry if you do this again", and then patiently guide and persuade.
Fourth, stimulate children's interest in learning.
As parents, we should try our best to be good at guiding and stimulate children's interest in learning. As we all know, children are active and playful by nature, but as long as they are interested in something, they will really study hard, do it seriously and do it consciously. They don't want to do things they are not interested in, and it is impossible to drive ducks to the shelves for their children.
Only by being good at guiding children and stimulating their interest in learning can children be happy and actively involved in learning. Usually, you can make use of your knowledge and imagination to make up some interesting stories or games, so that children can learn while playing, and truly "enjoy learning".
In short, for children's family education, we should learn to communicate with them attentively, help them develop good study habits, stimulate their interest in learning, and let them study happily and grow up healthily.