In family education, parents should adopt the education method of combining leniency with severity to spread positive energy in front of children. Parents, as parents, should lead by example, and don't spread negative words and behaviors in front of their children. Parents should be "strict father's loving mother" in the form of family discipline, and don't be strict with both, otherwise the children will be unbearable. On the contrary, two are suitable for children.
The process of moral cultivation is an interactive process between intelligence and non-intelligence, but non-intelligence factors are more important than intelligence factors. At present, in family education, the biggest misunderstanding of parents is that they only pay attention to the cultivation and learning of intelligence, while ignoring the cultivation of non-intelligence factors. Although the emphasis on academic performance has its social roots, the success of children after entering society does not depend on academic performance.
It is the core task of parents to guide their children to learn to read, learn to be independent, even get in touch with society and integrate into society, and guide their children to grow up healthily. Parents should "teach them to fish" instead of "collect them to fish". It is very important to cultivate children's personality of "self-improvement, self-reliance, self-esteem and self-love", rather than their growth.
It is worth noting that children's growth will not be smooth sailing, and the road to growth will be very broad. However, children still need free space for their growth. The future of children is a question of knowledge. Our parents should care and guide them, but they can't shape and bind them according to their own wishes. He should be given a relaxed learning and growing environment.
The educational concept advocated is kindness and firmness, which is a method of disciplining children without punishment or arrogance. In this atmosphere, we can cultivate self-discipline awareness, sense of responsibility, spirit of cooperation and our ability to solve problems, learn social skills and life skills that will benefit us for life, and achieve good academic results.