Don't tell children not to play or touch. Lock the lock itself and fasten the lid of the buckle. Hungry, thirsty, tired, sleepy and bored, children easily lose their temper. You should explore the rules of children's life and take appropriate measures, such as feeding, sleeping and taking children to other places to play, so as to prevent children from falling into the trap that may lead to bad emotions. Such a small baby's attention moves quickly, so you should make good use of it. For example, if you carry your child to the dining chair and the child refuses to go in, you don't have to insist. Coax him with some carrots, wheat circles and the like, and then put him on the dining chair when he is happy. Don't be an audience when the children are rolling. Without an audience, actors are boring. When you are too tired, too sleepy and too hungry, you will lose your temper as easily as a child. Just like children, be kind to yourself and give yourself enough electricity before you can enter the "bad mood zone".

2. Educate Xiong Haizi to remind people to be polite at all times.

A child has very strong feelings for his mother. If something changes his mother, he will show a particularly strong hatred for it. Maybe he hates his mother wearing some jewelry, maybe he doesn't like her changing her hair style, or there is a special expression on her face telling him that she doesn't like him, and he may especially hate this expression. There is no doubt that adults should always cooperate with the quickness and impetuousness of four-year-old children. Children like to expand outward, and sometimes even he can't stand it. Therefore, he still likes and respects those limited norms, but he doesn't always keep them in mind. You have to remind him often.

Parents should pay more attention to their children's behavior in secret.

Once you find that you have good behavior habits, praise them in time. Nowadays, children are precocious, so you should sincerely show enough respect when communicating with children, and never think that he is a child. Behavior can be child-centered, conversation must be life-centered, and you can talk to children in any tone you talk to people around you. In this way, he can feel your respect and treat him as an adult, which is easy to promote the child to form a conscious and independent personality, that is, a "little adult" among good children. Don't scare or stop children when they imitate adults. They can also be treated and evaluated as the closest adults in the family. This is more conducive to the child's psychological growth.

How to prevent children from becoming Xiong Haizi?

1, parents should know how to set an example.

Many times, children's values and cognition are subverted and changed invisibly by their parents. Any parent should know that children are imitative elves. They will imitate your goodness, but they will also absorb your evil.

2. Parents should think more about what kind of bear Haizi their children will become.

Learn to analyze each child's words and deeds, analyze each child's family background and the interaction between parents and them. At the same time, I also take the initiative to talk to other parents about how to guide their children and how to get them out of depression when they are crying and bored.

Never make a deal with children and never bribe them.

Rewarding them just because they behave appropriately will only increase the cost in the future. Instead of rewarding children with ice cream to finish their homework or do housework, it is better to give them spiritual rewards when they do good deeds.

Parents cannot ignore their children's bad habits.

1. Why can't we ignore interrupting the conversation?

Your child may be eager to tell you something or ask you some questions, but if you indulge him to interrupt your conversation, it will not help teach him to think of others, let alone let him learn how to spend time alone when you are busy.

2. Why can't we ignore aggressive behavior?

You don't have to discipline a child when he has a small conflict with his partner, but don't ignore those small aggressive behaviors, such as pushing down his little brother or pinching the child. If you don't take good care of it, this kind of bad behavior will be difficult to get rid of when the child is about 8 years old. It is acceptable to let the information conveyed hurt others.

3. Pretend not to hear. Why not ignore it?

Pack up your toys and drink your own water. When you remind your child to do something he doesn't like, once, twice, three times or even four times, he still doesn't seem to hear you. You can't ignore it at this time. If children are allowed to continue this behavior, they are likely to become arrogant and have a strong desire for control.