It is necessary to create a growing environment full of great love for children. Nowadays, many parents overprotect their children. In fact, this behavior of parents is not true love, but can only be regarded as "little love" and "doting". Such love is not good for children, but harmful. Society is very complicated and life is also very complicated. None of us can jump out of the circle of life Sometimes a little setback and a little injury are good for children's growth. This should also be a part of parents' love, so parents should let their children experience some hardships and setbacks, and then explain the truth of life to them after they are frustrated. This is great love.
It is also important to set a good example for children. Some people say: "teach without teaching" in family education. This statement is not necessarily accurate, but it has some truth. Family education depends not only on words and deeds, but also on setting an example. In fact, what kind of parents have what kind of children. To educate children well, we must first educate ourselves. Parents' words and deeds will affect children's judgment of right and wrong and the establishment of world outlook. "The son is unfilial and the father is guilty" makes sense. Education, teach first, then raise. A parent who only knows how to raise children is not a qualified parent. Educating children into adults is not simply raising children, but educating children to know how to be human. Only in this way can he live a better and happier life without his parents!
In addition, children should be given a correct and comprehensive evaluation. It is common for parents to expect their children to become dragons and their daughters to become phoenixes, which is also an understandable psychology. But genetic and other factors exist objectively. As parents, we can't evaluate and measure our children only by their scores or behaviors at a certain time. He (she) may have made efforts, but he (she) can't do better than others because of age, personality, ability and other reasons. However, children also have self-esteem. In fact, they are very concerned about other people's views and attitudes towards them, so they often use happiness to cover up their loss. Perhaps children will be hit and destroyed by incorrect evaluations again and again, and gradually lose confidence in themselves and interest in learning. This result will only kill a child's future and future. Correct evaluation is also very important for the development of reasonable family education. Correct evaluation will not only bury talents, but also promote children to become better talents.