1, respect children. Don't always make things difficult for your child's shortcomings, and don't always compare your child with other children. When in contact with children, try to focus on daily chat topics to reduce children's resistance to parents.

2. empathy. Everyone has come from the rebellious period of youth, so in the face of children's inexplicable behavior, we might as well put ourselves in their shoes and think about why. With empathy, you will understand the child and find the crux of the problem.

3. Avoid learning from the topic. Communication with children, don't keep your mouth shut is academic performance, which will only make children feel pressure and doubt the motivation of parents to communicate. When communicating, parents can start with family affairs and stabilize their children's emotions before getting down to business.

4, parents should use reason to control their feelings, and they can handle things calmly. Consciously cultivate students' self-reliance ability in daily life, let them do their own things, and gradually eliminate their dependence.

5. Understand their behavior, help them solve problems and free them from depression and loneliness.