I think smoking and drinking have a great influence on children. When I was a child, my father always drank, and I was always drunk when I drank. At that time, I hated drinking. When I grew up, I thought that if I got married, I would never find a man who could drink. My father had a great influence on me when I was a child, and I was afraid of drunken men.
Now my husband also smokes and drinks. Sometimes when he smokes, my son will take a hard puff and say, it smells good. Let me ask, he drinks a little wine every day. Even better, he doesn't drink much. In summer, he drinks beer. My son went back and said, I want to drink, too You said it didn't affect the children much.
I think parents should think of their children no matter what they do, because children have strong imitation ability and they want to try whatever you do. For the sake of children, they should pay attention.
There is a man who drinks and smokes in my family, and that is my husband.
I say it is serious because I feel it is beyond my cognitive level. Men, it is understandable to smoke and drink. Who let cigarettes and wine be our culture in China?
My husband can't drink much, but he always drinks too much, without exception. Alcohol and tobacco are not separated, and most people who drink like smoking. It is conceivable that cigarettes are also smoked very frequently. At least one box a day.
Under such edification, my two children are getting older and older. It's hard to say whether my son smokes when he grows up, but it certainly doesn't rule out the smell of smoke. As for my daughter, looking for a partner in the future will definitely not exclude men who smoke. She'll think it's normal.
As for the disadvantages of smoking and drinking, I won't go into details, as everyone knows. The biggest impact is not on children's health, but on children's ideas, which makes them feel that the bad habit of smoking and drinking has become accustomed to it. This is the most terrible thing.
This is what I think is the impact on children.