A coup for parents and children to live in peace.
1, parents learn to show weakness.
Parents often ask their children for help, which is also a sign of weakness and makes them feel needed. In this process, he will learn how to care and love others.
Children will understand that their parents will be tired, there will be things they can't do, and there will be things to worry about. They will gradually understand that life is not easy and will be more grateful.
Parents show weakness to their children, not ignoring their children, not being lazy, not showing their incompetence and weakness, but an educational art of "retreating for progress".
2. Don't bring bad mood to children.
Freud, a famous psychoanalyst, believes that the traumatic experience of childhood has an important influence on people's life.
The shadow of childhood is like adding a spoonful of salt to a cup. Time can be diluted, but it will never be sweet.
Therefore, it is very important for parents to have a good mood for their children.
We plant a seed of love in the child's heart with a peaceful mood, believing that the child will sprout new buds and bloom warm flowers one day.
3. Give more encouragement to children.
Encouragement is one of the most important methods in family education, and children will gain self-confidence, courage and self-motivation from encouragement.
The more parents encourage, the more motivated children will feel and the more willing they are to tap their abilities.
Children who grow up with encouragement will be more confident, dare to challenge themselves and have the confidence to solve the difficulties they face in their future study and life!
As far as parent-child communication is concerned, as long as parents are willing to spend time, listen attentively to their children's voices, enter their inner world, understand their feelings, know their real needs, and do it patiently, children will be willing to become good friends with their parents and accept their opinions and suggestions, thus forming a good parent-child communication relationship.