First of all, let children do what they can, never replace everything, and try to avoid intergenerational education. Our education is to cultivate a new generation with all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique and beauty, rather than a learning machine that can only learn other things. Learning is important, but cultivating ability is more important.

Cultivate a sense of independence

We should consciously cultivate children's sense of independence and give them more opportunities to participate in social activities, so that they can gradually adapt to social development in their activities.

Cultivate gratitude.

Cultivate children's sense of gratitude. From now on, it is necessary to cultivate children's gratitude consciousness, let them consider problems from the perspective of others, know how to repay and appreciate help, and gradually, children's self-centered outlook on life and values will be changed.

Don't be too generous in material conditions.

Don't provide children with too generous material conditions, so as not to cause children to blindly compare and be vain.

Cultivate frustration consciousness

We should consciously cultivate children's frustration consciousness and let them experience failures and setbacks in practice. When children make unreasonable demands, they can't easily meet them, let alone readily agree. You can work with him to create conditions for children to learn to work hard for what they want.