I have a happy family of five. There are two elders in the upper level and a small one in the lower level. Husband and wife are thrifty and rich. It sounds just like other families, but the relationship between them is very complicated. My wife and I are husband and wife halfway. One is her biological mother, the other is her former mother-in-law, and my son is my stepson. I have two daughters of my own, both married. You may be confused about this relationship, but let me elaborate.
Ben and I have a happy family. I have three children, my wife is virtuous, and my children are filial, but unexpected things happen. 1997, my wife left me because of uremia, and I was heartbroken. I can look after three children, but I still hold back my grief and bring them up. In the same year, her husband died of a heart attack, and the collapse of the family pillar hit her even harder. She also left behind an elderly mother-in-law and a newly sensible son. For a rural housewife, life is more difficult.
By chance, she was pure and kind, and we were in the same boat and had a speculative chat. I had the idea of living with her, but I also backed out when I thought of the embarrassing conditions at home. Later, when my friend saw that I was depressed, he asked for help and learned about the conditions for remarriage. I admire her more. She said that if she remarried, she wouldn't seek great wealth, but only her.
I have no money, but we rural people are sincere and attach importance to filial piety. Old people may not care about big fish and big meat. Our food is delicious and our life is comfortable, which is what she cares about most. What can't I do? At first, my mother-in-law didn't want to live with us, for fear that she wouldn't adapt after coming, and Zhang Jinghua didn't trust me. She and I caught up with the fashion and talked about a long-distance relationship, which lasted for six years before moving together.
I always think that the most important thing for family harmony is understanding and cherishing. Marry me, our home will be complete, our trees will flourish again, and we both have a big umbrella to shelter from the wind and rain. Farming on weekdays and going out to work during the slack season. She waits on the elderly and does housework at home. Going home every day is a hot meal, without words, only a warm heart. We have had frictions, but we all cherish this hard-won home, and we are willing to put ourselves in each other's shoes and understand each other. There is no problem that cannot be solved.
"Filial piety comes first" is our family motto. My father has Alzheimer's disease. He is blind, so he can't take care of himself. He feeds the old man bite by bite and never complains. I see it in my eyes and keep it in my heart. Empathy, after I took her mother-in-law and mother from Wafangdian, I realized that her mother-in-law loved to drink goat milk. I brought a milk goat specially. In order to let mother-in-law drink fresh goat milk every day, they are old and inconvenient to move. I made a simple toilet with iron shelves and benches. At first, my mother-in-law thought I was a lout, afraid of increasing the burden. She only brought two clothes and didn't intend to live permanently. Later, she lived together for a month. She volunteered to tell me when to look for a car and when to move all my things. Hearing this, my heart warmed up. This is a belief in us, so that I can live a down-to-earth life.
/kloc-For 0/4 years, although our life is dull, this cabbage bean curd has tasted happiness, which makes us have a deeper understanding of our home and know that this happiness needs to be passed on and continued. In xx, my son died in a car accident. The taste of white-haired people sending black-haired people makes me feel bad. During that time, my two daughters and stepson accompanied me in shifts to comfort me, especially this late son. He told me from the bottom of his heart that when my brother left, I was him and I was your own son. From then on, whenever I am unhappy, he can see it through my every move. He accompanied me to Kan Kan with two bottles of wine, and their feelings became more and more harmonious. The neighbor said that even his own son could not do this. Now, my daughter often goes home, buys some supplements to honor the two old people and chats with us at home. We also enjoy family happiness, and the whole family is happy.
This is my place . What I do is an ordinary housework that everyone can do. Know how to give before big things, and know how to cherish before small things. I think if everyone inherits and continues this love and filial piety, this is the most beautiful family that everyone wants.
Personal speech of the most beautiful family II
Recently, I read a piece of information about the shortage of fresh water resources on the Internet: China is short of water resources, with a small amount of water resources per capita, low utilization rate of water resources and serious waste. According to the engineer of the National Flood Control Headquarters, China's per capita fresh water resources are a quarter of the world's per capita, and it is listed as one of the most water-deficient 13 countries in the world. The scarcity of water resources in China is particularly serious in the northern region. The water resources in the north only account for 90% of the country, and the per capita water resources are only one third of that in the south. However, a big city like Beijing is facing a severe situation of extreme shortage of water resources, which will affect normal production and life and form a bottleneck for the realization of urban sustainable development strategy. Beijing's per capita water resources are less than 300 cubic meters, which is only one eighth of the national average and one third of the world average. Saving water is a very important thing for people in this city. After reading these materials, our whole family was shocked and decided to protect the precious water resources. Here are some water-saving stories of my family.
Story 1: Always remember to save water.
Once, when I was washing my hands, the tap was always on. When my father knew it, he said to me, "Did you forget the last message?" Water resources are precious. "And he turned off the tap. He went on to say: "My family will strive to be a pioneer family in water conservation in the future! I need our joint efforts! " I applauded and felt ashamed of what I had just done. So, I immediately went back to my room and wrote a note-"Please turn off the tap! "Stick it on the wall above the pool. Some relatives came to my home and saw the note, boasting that I was a new-age teenager with a specific awareness of environmental protection.
Story 2: Waste Water Trio
Mother's magic weapon for saving water is the wastewater trio. Mother mopped the floor with washing water, and then flushed the toilet with mopping water. Although my mother's three tricks are the simplest, they are the most effective among many water-saving methods in my family, which makes me deeply admire. My mother is the first person to use the coup. Saving water, starting from mom, has set a good example for us.
Story 3: There are ingenious ways to wash dishes after meals.
My mother used to wash dishes directly by the faucet. After reading the report, I became a small water-saving supervisor. After I discovered this phenomenon, I started an experiment. Finally, I found that washing with a washbasin saves a lot of water than washing directly under the faucet. So, under my reminder, the way of washing dishes in our family has changed.
With these preludes, our family will go further and further on the road of saving water. Our family used their brains and came up with many ways to save water. Now many schemes have entered the implementation stage. If you also have a good water-saving coup, take it out and learn from me, and work together to protect water resources!
Personal speech of the most beautiful family 3
Dear leaders and colleagues,
Hello everyone!
Today, the topic of my speech is "Good Family Style and Silent Education". Speaking of "family style", I want to share with you what is "family style", which is a family tradition, norms and customs. Old refers to the moral standards and lifestyle passed down from generation to generation by a family or clan. Family style is an example for the older generation to give to the next generation, and it depends on their own behavior to influence the next generation.
I remember when I was at school, my father taught me to "respect teachers, unite with my classmates and study hard at school." ; When I joined the work, my father told me, "I should respect the leaders in the unit, love my post and be dedicated, and dare to take responsibility." ; After getting married, my father taught me, "Since I am an adult, I should take on the responsibilities of society and family and always be grateful." .
Family is the cell of society. With the progress of society and the development of the times, the role, composition, education and atmosphere of the family are constantly changing. However, no matter how the environment changes, the family, a small collective, has the function of affection and parenting, but it has never changed.
Because of this, family plays an indispensable role in the process of human development. Without good family education and good family virtues, there will be no good quality education for children, no promotion of social development and progress, no national prosperity and social harmony.
In ancient times, family training and family training mostly concentrated on the life experiences, life experiences and academic thoughts of ancestors. Not only have future generations benefited a lot, but we are also deeply moved when we read it today. In today's splendid traditional culture, those good family styles still have great reference significance for our modern education. Famous articles in ancient family precepts, such as the Book of Commandments left by Zhuge Liang before his death, said: "A gentleman's journey is to cultivate one's morality by being quiet and frugal.
If you are not indifferent, you will have no ambition, and if you are not quiet, you will not be far away ... "Although the article expounds the profound truth of dedication, self-cultivation and scholarship, it is thought-provoking to read. As a noble and knowledgeable father, Zhuge Liang put the parents' inculcation and infinite expectations on their children into words through these wise, rational, concise and rigorous words.
A good family style comes from a good family motto. China's ancient family precepts have a long history and rich contents, involving settling down, treating people and things, and managing the country. For example, in "Family Instructions of Bao Zheng", Bao Zheng is famous for being honest and clean, and enforcing the law like a mountain. In his later years, he formulated a family motto for future generations: "Future generations are officials and have.
Those who abuse stolen goods shall not return them to themselves; After his death, he should not be buried in a big coffin. If you don't follow my wishes, you are not my descendant. "A total of 37 words. Bao Zheng's family precepts were a warning to future generations before his death, so that his son could be carved on a stone and erected on the east wall of the main house for future generations. These 37 words embody Bao Gong's integrity and clean hands. Although it has a history of 1000 years, it is enough for the world. These outstanding spiritual heritages, which shine with the wisdom of the Chinese nation, embody the basic spirit, value orientation and humanistic care of traditional family culture in China.
On the one hand, good family style and family precepts inherit excellent history and culture, on the other hand, they bear the spiritual pursuit of national and social development, and have many similarities with socialist core values. At the 13th collective learning conference in the Political Bureau of the Central Committee, it was put forward that "a kind of value must be integrated into social life, so that people can feel it and understand it in real life.
We should pay attention to closely combining the advocated things with people's daily lives, and work hard on details, details and implementation. "As far as the whole society is concerned," Family Training and Family Style Construction "itself is to carry forward traditional virtues and pass on positive social energy. From another perspective, it is undoubtedly an effective way to innovate and practice socialist core values by starting with family style construction and family training and linking them with our lives. Family style is the ethos, style and fashion of family behavior, and family training is the code of conduct of family behavior. Through the construction and inheritance of family style and family precepts, we can stimulate the motivation of socialist core values at the grassroots level and at home.