Unfortunately, in my family, boldness must give way to younger brothers and sisters. This is the education of the family, so I want to be sensible, not only to give way to the big ones, but also to the small ones.

Mencius' thought of "providing for the old, doing something for the old, and caring for the young" has been a traditional virtue since ancient times, but the original intention of this sentence is to respect one's elders, then respect others' elders, care for one's children, and then care for others' children. "Love the young" means caring for the next generation, far from the age difference between brothers and sisters. Whether it is a relative's child or two children in a family, the age difference is mostly within 10. The younger is a child, so is the older. At this time, it is simply the robber logic for adults to save trouble in the process of education to let older children make way for children indiscriminately. Older children tend to feel inferior and rebellious, and children are even more unreasonable. The reason why parents force the big to let the small is often because "older children should be more sensible, and it is normal for children to be ignorant. If they are older, they will accommodate the small. There is no right or wrong." The logic behind this reason is that the strong must make way for the weak.

But we can't generalize. As a big boy, you don't have to let your brother and sister. The premise is that the younger brothers and sisters have not made mistakes in principle.