The Spring Festival is coming, and festive days are also a headache for parents. Adults should not only take care of the older generation, but also their own children. Many adults will feel exhausted, and children will become excited and tired. If they don't pay attention, it will lead to food accumulation, fever and restlessness, which will lead to various problems. During this time, mom and dad are more "wordy" than usual, and children are more "rebellious" than usual. When children face parental control and verbosity, some children will adopt a perfunctory way, silence is Kim's coping style, while others will take a rebellious way to oppose their parents. Especially children who enter adolescence are more likely to get excited. Children are too restless during the Spring Festival. How to solve their contradictions?

First, don't force it.

Parents should use adult thinking to analyze and measure the problems between children. The problem between them is very simple, and parents don't have to worry about it at all, let alone go into battle in person. They must decide whether to win or lose. Children should be allowed to bear some twists and turns, and it is necessary to accept some challenges. Parents should relax. Children are not porcelain dolls, as long as they are in the right degree, they can grow naturally.

Second, don't restrict children's contact

If children want to grow up and enter the society, they need to bear the responsibilities and risks they must bear, blindly evade orders and form distrust of society, and ultimately accomplish nothing. Children have the right to choose their friends, and parents can't judge and restrain them with the narrow eyes of adults.

Third, don't jump to conclusions

Don't make unreasonable decisions about who is right and who is wrong on issues between children. Maybe the parents are right or wrong, but the children have solved the problem and become friends hand in hand. We should look at the back of the work and think from a distance. It is not only this little friend who has had problems with it that the child will defeat, but more challenges it will face in the future. These challenges come from all directions, and they are definitely beyond the reach of a counterattack.

When parents deal with problems between children, it is the best education for children to correctly guide their children to deal with problems.