After reading Fu Lei's Letter in senior high school 1 "A person's thoughts will not be systematic without writing."
Therefore, after reading Fu Lei's Letter, an urgent need to sort out the feelings endowed by Mr. Fu Lei's works prompted me to write this article, hoping to make my gains clear.
Mr. Wan Li's thought of spreading books has spanned more than ten years in Qian Shan, thousands of miles away. It is not only an exhortation and caress to his beloved son, but also a feeling between the lines, which sublimates the childlike innocence of loving the motherland and the nation, and condenses the charm of his personality, which is all moving.
At this moment, the era to which Mr. Wang belongs has long been out of people's ideological category, and the ever-widening distance has blurred the objective judgment of that era. However, we can vaguely feel that the spark of pain in those days still stirred our nerves bit by bit. Even a long time ago, the deep imprint of mental punishment and physical and mental pain brought by the war without smoke still surfaced from time to time. Therefore, I am deeply grateful to a gentleman who loves truth, life, art, integrity, sincerity and frankness, and finally chooses the way of leading an honest and clean life to prove his sincerity and seek ideological emancipation.
The talons of life deformation constantly crush his talent and destroy his body and mind, while Mr. Wang has been expecting to see the rise of the country in compromise and persistence. His life has been persistent, even if others think it is paranoia and fanaticism, he has never let go. His profound philosophical thinking on life, his originality and enterprising spirit in music art, his infiltration of traditional excellent culture and his vigorous thinking prompted him to always uphold a clear and pure heart, optimistically resolve the pain of the times and broaden the width of life.
Although Mr. Wang pretends to be too paranoid and adds a lot of troubles to his life, a little dirt can't hide the brilliance of gold. There are too many admirable qualities in him, and then he blends into his elegant life sentiment, making him feel that those adjectives are as fragile and pitiful as branches and leaves. Among the endless beauty of personality, what impresses me most is Mr. Wang's unique and elegant views on art and his humble, optimistic and tireless attitude towards life, which enables an aesthetic beginner to grasp the self-confidence that can make her firm in the trance with people who are confused about life.
In terms of artistic taste, Mr. Wang advocates embedding life and nature, balancing emotional flow and rational persistence, and achieving an appropriate balance between the detachment, tranquility and moderation of the East and the enthusiasm, liveliness and enlightenment of the West. However, the most important thing is to inject pure heart and emotion into the art of life. "The moving performance of art must come from the purity of mind."
Teacher Wang's point of view has explained the answers to many problems that plague modern people. The choice of fame and fortune, the hardships of suffering, the philosophy of life, the essence of art and the temper of temperament are all like brilliant torches to drive away the darkness and reproduce the stars and the moon.
Therefore, for such a great spiritual man who has become more and more clear and thorough in the turbulent flow of the times, I have deep admiration as well as deep nostalgia.
After reading Fu Lei's Letter in high school, what impressed me most was that Fu Lei's love for his son was not only in all aspects of life, but also in encouraging and urging children to study.
In order to have a common topic with his son and become an artistic friend with him, Fu Lei urged his son to read books on art at the same time, so as to improve his music theory and appreciation level and enable him to have an equal dialogue with his son. Then discuss music theory through letters and sons, and discuss the children's shortcomings and improvement methods. The whole process is an equal attitude, just like chatting between friends, and I talked about my own views in the learning process and my own practices and experiences in dealing with similar problems, which gave people a convincing feeling. At this point, it is worth learning from our parents.
As the saying goes: lead by example. Parents' learning attitude and enterprising spirit are the best examples for children. However, our current education has too much utilitarianism, so it is best for children to know everything at once. If they deviate from their expectations slightly, they will make a hullabaloo about, which will greatly reduce their interest in learning and produce a feeling of being tired of learning. Even some children can't relax for a while and make excessive behavior, which is not worth the loss.
We should try to be friends with our children. We can discuss it together in study, and we don't need to have a high degree. Most of the problems that children encounter in learning are unclear understanding of a certain concept. At this time, if you ask your children to take out their textbooks, find the corresponding chapters and study together, perhaps under your guidance, they will be suddenly enlightened and have a bright future. At that time, children will have a convincing feeling for you and will remain interested in learning.
In the process of guiding children to learn, Fu Lei did not forget to educate children to be "people". He said to his son, "I always think that the most important thing is' people' whether in study or art. To develop a' person' as much as possible, you must learn to be a man before you can become an artist. Otherwise, no matter how clever the family is, it will not make much contribution to mankind. "
He asked the children not to talk when eating, not to make any noise when chewing food, and put the stool under the table after eating. When you use up your belongings, you should put them back. Be polite to people, especially to teachers or the elderly, and be modest when speaking. To stand up straight is to pay attention to the way, attitude, tone and tone of speech. Fu Cong is now a world-class piano player. His elegance and demeanor are related to Fu Lei's family education.
The purpose of our education is to make children grow up healthily physically and mentally. You will know a person from his manners. People who are polite are very popular. Therefore, every parent should cultivate their children's good basic manners when they are young, so that they can become educated people and eventually make contributions to the motherland.
After reading Fu Lei's letter in high school, I felt a little rejected when I first read Fu Lei's letter. I feel that the preaching tone in those letters is a bit heavy, which reminds me of my mother's rambling condescending education.
Slowly, I began to be attracted, understood the love of Fu Lei and his wife, and realized the warmth and sincerity between the lines. Letter from Fu Lei is full of parents' responsibilities, passionate and deep love for their children, and conveys the spirit of persistent pursuit of truth and morality.
This is a strict father, a mentor.
This is a pair of father and son, but also a pair of confidants. The soul and spirit are highly resonant, reflecting each other and enviable.
There is also a couple who walk hand in hand and support each other on the road of life. What a wonderful harmony between piano and musical instrument!
Fu Cong said of his father: "Warm and quiet, profound and simple, gentle and arrogant, microsecond and straightforward." In these letters, there are not only warmth, but also wisdom, simple and profound understanding of life, work and ideals. These letters from home contain Fu Lei's fiery and transparent heart. Therefore, it is understandable why the masters of that year were enough to stop today's colleagues at the top of the mountain. They have created a height that many people can't reach today-"virtue and art, outstanding personality."
I was very nervous when my son wrote, and I was excited all day when I received the letter. I copied 60,000 words of Greek Sculpture for my son and wrote letters to my son and daughter-in-law in different languages. This is the inheritance wind.
Letters from Fu Lei not only teaches people how to be parents, but also warns the world how to be children, and even instructs us what attitude and pursuit we should have towards life and work.
Fu Lei taught Fu Cong to plan his work and life, reduce unnecessary time and have "arranged skills".
He said, "The more you despise matter, the more you need to control it." Therefore, I always take pains to give the experience and experience of family economic planning seriously.
He prepares books for his sons from time to time, or recommends good books to guide them to read more serious books, and can't just spend time on entertaining reading.
He always carefully pointed out the mistakes in his son's letters and told Fu Cong how to express his feelings in rich language.
Of course, they also discuss piano playing skills together and share their feelings and views on art.
The dialogue between parents and children decades ago still benefits people a lot today.
Sadly, such a letter from home came to an abrupt end on 1966. Seeing the suicide note of the Fu Lei couple before their death, it is sad that the grievances are inseparable and no one can care about it.
In the end, they didn't wait for their dear son, so life was sadly branded as a terminator. Years later, when Fu Cong's son can read these letters, how will he feel about his grandparents? How can we understand the tragedy of life staged in the dark ages?
After reading Fu Lei's letter in senior three, 4-What does he mean by "being a man"? He is a person who can't bear his worries and doesn't change his pleasure when he goes back. He is a person who has been sublimated in the highest sense.
-"Letter from Home" just sums up everything I felt around my father since I was a child.
From ancient times to the present, letters from home are emotional bridges connecting family members. There are all kinds of allusions, such as "after three months of war, a letter from home is worth a ton of gold" and "the wild goose returns, and the west building is full of moons". Fu Lei's letter began in 1954 Fu Cong, where Fu Lei's eldest son went abroad to learn piano. The affectionate dialogue between father and son runs through a letter from home. But Fu Lei's letters from home are not just the thoughts of relatives. When reading this book, I saw the Fu Lei family's pursuit of art, their understanding of life and their love for the motherland. ...
In everyone's heart, there is a hidden spiritual belonging, where you can talk with the person you love from the heart. From the silent words, I seem to see not only the deep warmth of Fu Lei and his son, but also a kind of familiarity.
This is a strict father's patient guidance to his son. In almost every letter, both father and son have feelings about piano art. Fu Lei not only cares about his son's piano practice life, but also constantly emphasizes the feelings of various tunes and compares the differences between different players. A simple sentence reflects more the father's concern for his son and his pursuit of art.
This is a great father's education for his son. Fu Lei pinned his hopes on his son and told him to stand firm, be modest, have manners and be patriotic. Be an artist with both ability and political integrity and outstanding personality. After the sentimental words, the two sides had a profound friendship. Words are ruthless, but they carry the warmth of love, like a long stream of water, nourishing the dry grassland. Under the gestation of an era, Fu Lei told his son forcefully and firmly, "There are many difficulties in life, so we must constantly transform ourselves, fight against all traditional, capitalist and non-Marxist thoughts, feelings and customs, and abandon all outlook on life and old social norms."
Fu Lei's concern for his son made me see more about my life and my family. There is no separation, no letters, but there is still that kind of familiar feeling, that kind of loving care. My parents' help to me is selfless. They taught me to be grateful and meticulous. My life is recorded in my letters about study and life. It taught me how to cherish.
I was born in a completely different era from Fu Lei. The happy reunion has kept us from communicating, but the meticulous care and little love from my parents are still familiar in my mind. Whenever love is expressed in different ways, I see this love more clearly from Fu Lei's letters. I will feel love in the faint joy and be grateful for it.
Letters from Fu Lei is a complete set of letters written by a famous translator in China to his son Fu Cong. The whole book is full of father's love, father's encouragement to his son, various principles of treating others and father's criticism and education to his son when he did something wrong.
At the beginning of the book, Fu Lei wrote in several letters to Fu Cong, "Son, I abused you. I will never be sorry for you. I will never be able to atone!" "Although I buried my past, I still can't bury my mistakes." Like this, like confessing to his son, it can show that Fu Lei was severely disciplined in Fu Cong when he was a child. But if it weren't for Fu Lei's strict discipline in Fu Cong when he was a child, where would Fu Cong's glory and achievements come from when he grew up?
After Fu Cong went abroad, Fu Lei "woke up at six or seven every morning and couldn't sleep over and over." He is happy for his son's success, but he misses him all the time. It is not difficult to see from the book that Fu Lei has profound musical attainments. Every time after his son's music performance, he can always tell his son the shortcomings and shortcomings of the music performance and the improvement methods in the letter.
Fu Lei is also a father who is good at listening to children's voices. Every time Fu Cong writes about the setbacks and hardships in his life, Fu Lei always patiently tells him the solutions and countermeasures in his reply. Fu Lei often points out the correct learning methods to Fu Cong in his letters. For example, he was worried that his son abroad was preoccupied with art and didn't care about all kinds of things outside, so he wrote to tell Fu Cong that "it is very harmful to cultivate music only by music". "You need to go to nature more, and you need to appreciate plastic arts to adjust." Fu Lei's love for his son is vividly reflected in one letter after another.
Through Fu Lei's letter, I understand that all parents in the world love their children deeply. Maybe they are not good at expressing in words, but their every move is to care and love their children. Although some actions are trivial, true love is not necessarily vigorous, but reflected in the dribs and drabs of life. Parents gave us life, nurtured our growth, and taught us the truth of being a man, but we didn't cry out for bitterness or tiredness. Sometimes, our parents may be a little hard on us, but they are hard on us for our future happiness. When we lose our temper with our parents, should we think about what our parents have done for us?
I see, we should think of our parents, do our best to honor them, start with small things, and honor them with practical actions-move a stool, bring a cup of tea, and beat their shoulders for their tired parents all day long, so that they can feel our love.
Parents' love is self-evident, so why don't we appreciate their love?
A Letter from Fu Lei is an excerpt from a letter written by Fu Lei and his wife to their children Fu Cong and Fu Min during the period of 1954- 1966. This book is an excellent reading for teenagers' ideological cultivation, a classic model of quality education and a famous godson full of fatherly love. Their two children (Fu Cong, a famous piano master, and Fu Min, a super English teacher) are the successful embodiment of their educational concept of cultivating independent thinking and teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. Therefore, Fu Lei and his wife became the model of China's parents.
I am deeply touched by such a passage in the book: "Speaking of incompleteness ... the perfection you said does not exist at all. The whole life, the world and the universe are far from perfect ... The pursuit of our generation, the pursuit of generations in history, is nothing more than the pursuit of perfection, but it will never be pursued, because human ideals and. So I came up with a story. There used to be a broken mirror, which was broken into many pieces. One of them wanted to find the rest to rebuild the original mirror. Along the way, it rolls slowly because of its sharp edges and corners, thus enjoying the delicious food along the way. When it worked hard to find all the pieces, it turned into a whole circle and rolled very fast, and the scenery along the way passed in an instant. In fact, we are all pursuing perfection, and it is precisely our current incompleteness that has brought us to the realm of pursuing perfection and contributed to the relative integrity of other aspects. But when the so-called perfection happens to us one day, we may lose a lot.
Freudianism is famous for its strictness. I thought their father was not on good terms, but after reading this book, my mind changed greatly. When Fu Cong went abroad to study, his contact with his father naturally depended on letters, so his father's affection was undoubtedly revealed in a letter from home. They discuss art together through letters, study the connotation of music and exchange views on things. Although there is no such thing as being caring and attentive when their mother communicates, the tacit understanding between them is irreplaceable. Looking back at this book after closing the book, the biggest feeling is that Fu Lei has profound attainments in art, and Fu Lei has his own views on the understanding of art, especially music. This reminds me that people who have made achievements in literature also have higher research in the field of art, perhaps because literature and art are the same. Different excellent literary works will have different psychological effects after reading; Different styles of concerts bring similar results. Beautiful prose brings pleasure like enjoying a cheerful aria; A heavy novel brings shock like a sad symphony; Humorous sketches will bring elegant scenes like opera and endless thinking afterwards. After carefully reading the book "Letters from Fu Lei", I feel that it gives people a good atmosphere and room for aftertaste like a traditional opera.
I read Fu Lei's letter in high school, and I read Fu Lei's letter this winter vacation, and I gained a lot.
A Letter from Fu Lei is a letter from China literary translators Fu Lei and his wife to their children Fu Cong and Fu Min. This book is an excellent ideological reading for teenagers, a classic book for educating children and a masterpiece for teaching children to be full of fatherly love. They painstakingly trained two children and educated them to become adults before getting married, which is a successful embodiment of the educational thought of cultivating children to think independently and teach students in accordance with their aptitude. So I think Mr. and Mrs. Fu Lei are the role models and models of China's parents.
I think it would be a great thing if people can really devote their whole lives to what they love and enrich their lives at the same time. I can find my purpose in life now, although I used to be blind. But I know that as long as you work hard towards your goal, you will get something.
Fu Lei said: Maybe money and material things can't give you enough returns, but academics and art will definitely give you answers. I think whether hard work can bring returns or not can at least enrich our hearts. I believe that if I spend my time on what I think is useful every day, I will definitely get progress and satisfaction.
I think it is the most enviable thing to encourage each other, support each other and communicate with the truest heart. Fu Lei said that he and his son are the closest friends. What a good father-son relationship. I think reading Fu Lei's letter can really enrich people's hearts and make people calm. And art will give us spiritual edification. The nutrition we absorb in it will make us grow sturdily and bring a lot of fun to our lives.
Letter from Fu Lei is a reflection of Fu Lei's thoughts, and it can be said that it is the most important work of Fu Lei's life, because it is a letter between him and his son, which fully reflects his father's care for his son. What is written on the paper is all household words, so you can write what you think in your heart without the reader's worry. Because of this, feelings are so pure, sincere and simple, without any hypocrisy. The significance of Letters from Fu Lei goes far beyond the scope of Fu Lei's family. The book is full of father's love. Maybe every father loves his children, but at the same time he doesn't forget to educate them in all aspects. In China with a large population, how many people can do this, because it requires sufficient conditions, a knowledgeable father, a knowledgeable son, and a full tacit understanding between father and son.
Good reading, good reading, Fu Shu is a rare good book, a good book full of affection between father and son.
After reading A Letter from Fu Lei in high school, I felt that I would be a teacher, a father, a friend and a relative. I just want to wander in the text, I just want to be confused in my emotions. Those things about being a man, learning methods and philosophy of life are also hidden in it, which exerts a subtle influence on a person's life.
The ancients said, "If the son doesn't teach, the father has made a mistake." Then how lucky Fu Cong is to have a good father. Without the guidance of father's love, how can he go further and further on the road to success?
Song and dance send flying balls, and Jin Yuyang. Father's love is priceless for enlightening wisdom.
"Be a man first, then an artist, and then a musician." This classification makes sense. Bill Gates's father attaches great importance to cultivating children's confidence and motivation, so as to let them know the real society and the outside world. Admittedly, so is Fu Lei. What he constantly emphasizes in his letter is nothing more than dealing with people. A seemingly insignificant letter from home is actually meaningful. Only by being yourself, living in harmony with others, abiding by moral integrity and perfecting your personality can you really do everything you want.
Therefore, in the eyes of the father, the child is always a child, and it is inevitable to worry. If you can turn your life experience into the protection of your children, it is naturally the best. It seems that only in this way can they relax.
Orchids in spring are full of flowers, and osmanthus in autumn is bright and fresh. Fatherly love is a bitter medicine to cure ignorance.
"All learning is not fast." Mozart's father taught his children enlightenment from an early age. He first taught them to write short songs, and then went deeper and deeper, letting them learn music theory bit by bit. Just like Fu Lei's teaching children, whether learning the piano or learning a language, we should take every step in a down-to-earth way. "You can't eat hot tofu in a hurry", which is also a concern of your father.
Yes, it's a long way to learn. If you are not careful, you will fall short. Only by continuous accumulation and application can we master every skill skillfully. Don't get lost in drunkenness, don't indulge in delicious food. When the mountain arrived, the scenery stopped. Although I can't reach it, I yearn for it.
He projected them to the wild goose to bear his distant monarch. Fatherly love is the only way to succeed.
Do you remember? Liang Qichao teaches students in accordance with their aptitude, and his unique recipe for teaching children is admirable; Do you remember? Zeng Guofan is calm and calm, and his mantra is convincing; Do you remember? Fu Lei loves his son to a certain extent, and the love between the lines is amazing!
Kisses are like love, and it's hard to repay you forever. A letter from home carries his father's childlike innocence. The calf has a deep affection, and the father loves it without boundaries, such as a gurgling stream in the mountains, blue sky and white clouds. It's pure and simple, and it's more memorable.
Letters from Fu Lei is a book worth reading and chewing, and it is a rare good book. Every family has different ways of education, and Fu Lei's family education is worthy of admiration and imitation.
Through these letters, Fu Lei and his son not only established a strong bond between them, but also established a strong relationship between their children and their distant motherland through this bond.
Since it is a family letter between father and son, the most prominent thing in the book is of course the deep fatherly love. Maybe every father loves his children, but at the same time he doesn't forget to educate them in all aspects, such as music, art, philosophy, history, literature and even health. I wonder how many people will be there.
Parents are children's first teachers, and a good family is a good thing for children, which determines their life. Fu Lei's method of educating children is quite special. He directed the life and art of his distant son through letters, and also showed his concern and love for his son.
In the letter, he warned his son, "People should always force themselves. If they don't force themselves, they can't solve the problem. The most basic thing is to seize the time "; "Doing things scientifically and thoroughly"; "Don't be embarrassed in the outside world and be casually stayed by others, so as not to disturb the scheduled schedule"; "Modifying small habits is tantamount to modifying one's own consciousness and temperament". Aren't these what we should learn from?
So is the love of parents in the world. Although my parents are not as famous as Fu Lei and can't tell the truth of putting people in one position, they always think of me. No matter what they do, they will think of me first and plan for me.
There are a lot of principles in Fu Lei's letters, which is a valuable spiritual wealth. However, isn't the daily teaching of parents the criterion of standing and acting? Yes, many families want their children to succeed, but how many families can educate their children well? In China, parents didn't communicate with their children attentively, didn't understand their children's situation and didn't guide them correctly.
There are also some parents who think that children can't succeed without struggle, which hurts their body and mind. Instead of becoming sensible, children are even more rebellious. Therefore, parents should read a letter from Fu Lei, and as children, we should also read this good book, because it will infect us, make us aware of our parents' good intentions, know how to be grateful, let us know how to appreciate art and get correct life guidance.
No matter how long it takes, Mr. Fu Lei's influence will always exist, because his educational methods can be used as a blueprint for family education, and "Letters from Fu Lei" will be loved by more and more people.