The following points should be strict: first, set strict standards for children. Secondly, we should strictly correct the intentional mistakes in treating children. Finally, standards should be strictly enforced. The following points should be relaxed: first, establish a relaxed evaluation mechanism. Secondly, be tolerant of children's achievements.

exacting standard

The process of children's growth is the process of establishing standards. In this process, parents should set a strict standard for their children to regulate their behavior.

Strict correction

If a child clearly knows what the standard of doing something is, but deliberately makes mistakes, then parents must strictly deal with it and consolidate the standards established in the past.

Normative consciousness

Children clearly know that littering is impolite and uncivilized, and they also deliberately litter, so we must treat children's mistakes with a strict attitude and try our best to help them cultivate a sense of norms.

♀? Carry out to the letter

We help children to establish a strict standard, that is, to enable children to act according to this standard in their daily lives. Therefore, when children formulate norms, parents must help their children strictly implement them.

Loose evaluation mechanism

In the process of educating children, we must not be stingy with our praise, but also give them as much encouragement as possible, so that children can cultivate self-confidence and develop an optimistic and cheerful attitude towards life in the process of growing up.

Tolerance achievement

The result of children's efforts to do one thing requires parents to give them enough understanding and tolerance. No matter what the result is, we should treat it with empathy. When children fail, we should not criticize them, but encourage them. Only in this way can children not be afraid of failure.