Children's education really can't afford to delay. No one can pay for their own life, and neither can our parents! We must try our best to create a better education for our children.

There is something wrong with parents' educational methods, and there must be something wrong with their children.

Every child is unique and has a specific growth trajectory. How high and how far he can fly is inseparable from family education.

Only by mastering professional education methods can we understand children's hearts and make raising children simple and reliable.

Teach children sincerity,

Only to find that the child was bullied outside after being sincere.

Teach children to be kind,

Only then did I find that kind children were not recognized by society.

First, don't speak ill of others in front of children.

For children, parents' words and deeds have a great influence on her. No parents have no differences in parenting, even so, they should not criticize each other in front of their children.

We must set a good example in front of children, and don't speak ill of anyone, so that children will think that we are people who don't like to discuss others. You must communicate with others when you encounter something, so as to solve the problem. It doesn't mean that talking in front of children can solve the problem, but it will only bring a kind of disgust to children.

Create a good environment for children, and don't nag about things that disturb them in front of them.

Second, parents should not be eager for quick success.

Parents should take a long-term view. What parents want is the happiness of their children for a lifetime, not a temporary lead competition. Therefore, parents should not only stare at the surface, let the anxious and impetuous emotions narrow their horizons and interfere with the normal development of children. Accept your child's shortcomings. As parents, they love their children unconditionally, not because they are good at singing, dancing, learning and being polite. In this regard, parents are required to accept their children's shortcomings and avoid magnifying them. When they mention their children, they seem to see only shortcomings.

Don't compare with other children. Some parents like to compare their children with other children, but they don't know that this will make their children grow up in an unfair environment and hurt their self-confidence. Every child has his advantages and disadvantages. Children's growth can be compared with their own past, so as to find problems and make progress together.

Third, cultivate children's stable emotions.

Only when children are emotionally stable can they reach a state of rational thinking and in-depth thinking and truly know what they need. Only by giving children no pressure, no anxiety and no freedom can they really cultivate their stable emotions. In this way, even when he is under pressure, he will not panic and know how to make the right choice.

Fourth, educate children to get along with others.

Life and work, will get along with people, get along well with people, and have good interpersonal relationships, we will be happier and everything will be smoother. When children enter a group, they often don't know how to get along with others because they don't understand these truths. Children's main time is at school, and classmate relationship is the main body of children's interpersonal relationship. For a student, besides parents, the relationship between children and classmates takes up most of the time. As children get older, they will spend more time with their classmates.

Tell children to be open-minded and not to worry about trivial things, which are contradictory to life. Don't care too much about gains and losses, and live in harmony with others.

Honest and trustworthy, establish good interpersonal relationships. People who don't keep their word can't get the trust of others, and it's hard to achieve anything.

Be a popular person, no matter big or small, help others and do your bit. Don't do anything that destroys others.

Integrate into the group, become a member of the group, actively participate in group activities, and don't act arbitrarily and ignore group activities.

Fifth, let children feel that living in the world is wonderful.

We will find that in a class, some children are always first or second, and their IQ is really high. And our children, no matter how hard they try, are in the middle, even behind. What should parents do in this case?

There are differences between children, but as long as your children don't reach the level of idiots, they can do important things as long as they can walk into the classroom normally. Hu Xueyan, for example, only went to school for two months, but in the end he became the most powerful businessman and ambitious. This is a good example. Our parents must be able to urge their children to make progress, and under no circumstances should their self-esteem be harmed.

You should make sure that your children are happy to win the first place and the last place, and make them feel that living in the world is beautiful. Cultivating their love for life is one of the most important tasks for parents.

6. Parents can't break their promises.

Of course, this view can't be told to children. You must learn how to encourage children. This exam is the last time, and I will encourage him to take it for the second time next time. He got 20 points this time, and I will encourage him to get 30 points next time. Never say you can't enter the house unless you get 90 points in the next exam. If you say so, of course, some children will study hard, but some children will not get 90 points even if they work hard. what should he do ？ Did you really let him in? You must let him in. The children will know later. My parents broke their word, so I left it alone. My parents were stabbed by children.

Seven, don't let the child become a vain person.

Nowadays, children's growing environment is more and more complicated, and parents also want to create superior conditions for their children to express their love for them, which is one of the main reasons for their vanity.

Parents should not satisfy their children's requirements just because they love them, which will breed their vanity.

Parents should help their children to balance their minds, cultivate their style and habits of pursuing knowledge and seeking truth from facts from an early age, and let them know themselves and others correctly from an early age and stay away from the erosion of vanity.

Parents should tell their children not to compare with others, and the pursuit of material enjoyment does not mean higher status and value. If the pocket money parents give their children is not controlled, the children will have enough money to control, and over time they will develop the habit of vanity. Parents should effectively control their children's consumption and guide them to establish a correct consumption concept, and can't buy unnecessary things for vanity. At the same time, children should be encouraged to establish "vanity" in their studies, rather than using vanity outside their studies.