1. In the process of raising children, carefully select animation works, games, picture books, etc. For children to watch and read, and resolutely avoid violent and visually impactful information from entering children's sight. When there is a conflict between children and playmates, we should take positive and appropriate ways to help solve it, patiently reason with children, and guide children to develop a thinking and behavior model of showing others by reasoning and convincing others by reasoning from an early age.

2. Parents should not be afraid of children's negative emotions. They should pay close attention to children's ideological changes in their daily lives. When children feel stressed and have negative impatience because of unsatisfied needs and things are always unsatisfactory, they should communicate with their children in time, listen to their troubles, help them release their pressure, and help them find a solution to the problem when they are calm.

3. When educating, we should pay attention to that if the child makes a mistake, no matter how small the punishment is. For example, if the homework is not completed well, parents can choose not to watch TV or other methods to educate their children reasonably, but they can't beat and scold their children for no reason.

4. Educate yourself or ask your relatives to educate your children. Obviously, parents pay everything for their children's growth and hope that their children will bear it. Parents also need to give their children love, care, understanding and respect. Don't label children unnecessarily when they make mistakes.

Children must ask their advice when they do something. Don't let parents think that this is what they should do, so be sure to let children do it. Over time, children will naturally have rebellious psychology in their hearts. If children raise objections, then parents should explore the reasons and why you don't do it.