1, academic performance is the tip of the iceberg of human growth, and below the iceberg is human personality and body. Personality and body are two fulcrums of academic achievement.

2, 3 years old or so strict management, to be the parents of children; /kloc-gradually put it down around the age of 0/3 and make friends with children. Effective education is first strict and then loose, while ineffective education is first loose and then strict. Effective incentives are from five to nine, and ineffective incentives are from nine to five.

3. Children need companions for their growth. Only children can understand children, and only children's company can accompany children to grow up. Children never expect giants to understand themselves, and children never regard condescending adults as their friends. Parents can be only children, but they can't let their children grow up alone. If there are no brothers and sisters and no partners, the "only child" will fall into double loneliness: not only the only child, but also the only child.

4. Meng Mu moved three times, and Rousseau took "Emile" to the countryside. Don't let children have too many partners before they form mature rationality and judgment, and be alert to the bad habits of their peers.

No matter how much parents have achieved, children's education has failed, and the whole life will fail.

6. Good parents look after their children and let them grow up actively; Bad parents do things for their children and let them grow passively.

7. A good mother treats her son as a friend, and bad mother treats her son as a lover.

8. There are two most difficult things for human beings: one is how to "rule" others; The other is how to "educate" others. (Kandi)

9. "If you want to be healthy, you must be hungry and cold." . It is forbidden to eat snacks before meals to make children feel hungry enough. Those who can't drink the nectar from the barrel are unfortunate. Let children eat sweets such as candy and chocolate as little as possible. Children who eat sweets without restraint will be in poor health and have no better personality. Children don't have to wear heavy clothes, and children are not as afraid of the cold as adults.